marriage without affection/sex/touching (page 2)

Quarterback

Wow, Flipper.

You had field service on Saturday morning, and a Sunday morning meeting to participate in, and that didn't giveyou enough time for sex.

I wish I had your sex life.

JRK

zeb,

That sucks, but not in a good way.

JK

Vanderhoven7

Sexual denial is a serious issue in marriage. I Cor. 7:2-5

Sounds like your wife may have forgiveness/anger/ issues.

Do you think/feel that she loves/likes you?

Have you gone for counselling?

Thats news to me! I can't have ORAL sex!?! WOW! I had to teach my wife how to do oral and now we perform it on eachother often and she loves it. I hope she doesn't read something from the WT that is going to destroy our currently good sex life. Where is it said that we can't have oral sex as a married couple? wtf! no one has a right to interfere in a legally binded married couples sex life. I stand here dumbfounded and flabergasted!

steve2

Hi again crushed. Yes, the organization has written about the very issue of oral sex on several occasions, implying if not stating directly that it is unchristian and reflects wordly sexual practices. I'm hoping some informed reader will see your query and give you the references to the relevant Watchtower magazines or refer you to threads where this topic has been discussed.

zeb

Been to counsellors many times down the years. She left the last one in tears the counsellor that is.

Talk in pornos/ Porno are about display not closeness so talking isnt it its all physical.

Re books yes there are lots I have purchased some and she has refused to read any of them.

I am used to the miserable life I have but i thought i would raise the issue and its causes.

Good health and positive feelings to you all.

Holy Crap! I just read it. Shower and wash the sheets? Hes one sick puppy he is. But it should not surprise us. In an org that picks it leaders by the way they dress the 'hours' they put in or whether the can handle a microphone or open windows. Not on real qualifications with people being formal 'Interpersonal skills', "Counsellor Training" or what quality study course they have done on marriage and relationships.

The lunatics are in charge of the assylum!

wha happened?

yikes marraige #1 went weird. Her head was so messed up she acted out sexually. NOt a pretty sight

bigmac

my first marriage--it was a threesome.

me

her

jehovah

TD

Re books yes there are lots I have purchased some and she has refused to read any of them.

Of course she refused to read them. The low drive/asexual spouse truly does not understand that there's a problem despite anything you may say or how many times you may say it. You're the only one that can change things because you're the only one that wants things to change, so books would be for you, not her. Think of it like trying to reason with a JW only worse. The JW is not going to be the one to read the 'apostate' literature

This is an especially easy trap for men to fall into because it feeds off the differences between men and women. The man thinks his wife should have sex with him out of gratitude or in reciprocity for his kindness and good behavior and that's not how women see the world. The woman thinks her husband wouldn't be kind or behave well if he was unhappy in any way and that's not how men see the world.

Found Sheep

Sad to say the lest!

marriage without affection/sex/touching