Welcome,
First steps outside of the watchtower world are always scary and full of distrust. It's good to question and ask for references. Watchtower indoctrinated us not to think for ourselves and trust the watchtower without ever really researching it's teachings, it's past and it's publications which has caused much harm to millions of people.
As you examine your faith give www.jwfacts.com a try and take a look at the rich heritage that watchtower doesn't like it's followers to know. Check the references, as it's good to understand that xjws don't usually make up lies about watchtower as JWs claim. Many of us have been where you are, it takes time to realize that the con man is not the outsider but the one whom we've trusted a large part of our life. As you research watchtower's history also consider how BITE model applies to the organization which will amaze you how many other cults use the same techniques on their followers.
It's great that you and your husband are examining what you've been taught. Keep the information that you learn to yourselves and don't share it with witnesses because you might lose everyone you know in a hurry if you don't stop your research or if you don't agree with wts - this includes closest friends and family.
Take your time as it's a slow process of realizing to what extend you've been conned and how little you really know about the organization claiming to be the truth and God's mouthpiece on earth.
If you have any specific questions, just ask away. If you need older wts material ask. Almost every topic you an imagine has been discussed in the past here, use the search engine above to look up topics you might be interested in.
Take care
