Hey everyone, my family and I have not gone to meeting in over a year. Rumors have swirled about us, but I have always dodged the elders calls and never said anything about my feelings. So after a while the calls/visits dwindled, but in October they came by again and saw our Halloween decorations. They did not specifically ask if I was celebrating Halloween, but just observed the decorations. I was pretty vague in the conversation and it ended with them saying they will have to figure out how to handle “the situation”. Anywhoo, today I get this letter saying 2 witnesses have observed me celebrating holidays and that I have a judicial meeting…..and if I don’t come, they will conduct it without me. Assuming that means Df’ing me???
At first I did not want to get Df’d because of JW extended family…but at this point they don’t talk to me anyway and I pretty much despise JW’s….so I don’t really care if they DF me. But I am not sure if I will go to the meeting, or just not respond? Also they never actually saw me celebrating Halloween, just saw the decorations. What if I just really like pumpkins? I did not have a graveyard on my lawn or anything…just a couple things by my door.
Any thoughts would be appreciated….thanks!