I can relate. Although I didn't move or change my name, leaving Jerhover's loving organization back in '02 was a Cut and Run for me. My DA letter took me all of about a minute to write - 'let this letter serve as notice that I am disassociating myself from JW's' - and that was pretty much all I wrote. And so with one hastily written letter I tossed out ten years of JWism and started afresh.
The nice thing about living in a larger city is that in some ways it is possible to escape from at least some of your past. Nowadays I never see any JW's that I used to know, nor do I ever come across people that I knew in school or from previous jobs. And I like it that way. If I never again saw anyone from those aforementioned groups of people, I would be all the happier.