I had a phone call last night from one of the Elders asking if they can come around. When I asked him why he said it was to discuss whether I would be interested in having a study.This is strange as I have been baptised since I was 14 and left about 4 years ago and have had little contact with any witnesses except my parents, but, the only thing that has changed over the last few weeks is that I put together a 50 page report documenting a range of subjects including the UN involvment etc and give it to my Mum. Then within a week the Elders want to ask my to have a study!I had a meeting with the same elders last year and I gave them a list of 50 questions that I needed answering before I would consider stepping foot into a kingdom hall again. I never heard from them again and have been making good progress talking with my mum. She concedes that I am right on things but still won't believe that the society would purposely lie to her. She even wrote a letter to the Bethel in London asking about the UN involvement and they wrote back and confirmed that they had joined just to get a library card and she was flabbergasted.What I would like from you is any killer points that you think I can use with the Elders tomorrow (Friday 14th) because I want to give them as hard a time as I can.I have my dis-association letter ready to give them before they leave but I may aswell have some fun before they do.Thanks everyone
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| searchfothetruth | Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
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| RandomTask | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
If you just want to give them a hard time then ask the tough questions. Questions about their history, the changing doctrines back and forth. You obviously have done a lot of research, you know what will make them squeal. And yes have that disassociation letter handy, because its either going to be that or they will DF you. You didn't expect to win the argument did you? | ||
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
The thing is I won the last arguement but they left me alone to my great surprise. But I can't see that happening tomorrow.The other thing that annoys me is this Theocratic Lying. Asking to come around to talk about the study but obviously thats the last thing on their mind. | ||
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| RandomTask | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Just remember that you are not dealing with honorable people, they are merely dumb terminals connected to a mainframe in Brooklyn. They don't have any personal conscience, just one that is dictated to them, so don't expect them to act like rational human beings. Their whjole life structure is based around this religion so they will defend it using any sort of twisted reasoning, the truth would be too damaging to their sense of purpose. They have to go around making gigantic mental leaps of acrobatic reasoning every day just to justify their way of life, its old hat to them and deeply ingrained. | ||
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
I know...I was one of them! I have found it frustrating with my parents. I have spent long hours logically going through loads of info working through lines of reasoning like: So, the society has stated on many occasions that it is God's prophet, do you agree? YesAnd Deutronomy tells us what a false prophet is? YesAnd the society has prophecied many things that did not happen, do you agree? YesSo the society are false prophets aren't they? No, they were just over enthusiasticThe frustration eats me up sometimes! As you say they they are told what to believe and how to answer and that is what I need help in trying to combat. | ||
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| Mulan | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Ask them if they consider you to be one of Jehovah's Witnesses. If they say yes, ask why they waited so long to come around.If they say no, ask them "what is the purpose of your visit?"Ask why they never replied to your 50 questions.Realize you won't reach them. They might be stumped and have to go ask for help on how to handle you, but you won't change them.If they get around to asking you about the "faithful slave" and whether you believe it is God's channel today, a question one friend of ours asked is this: "Do you think its POSSIBLE that the WTS will ever change their view of the Faithful and Discreet Slave?" They should answer that it is possible, because it isn't an "etched in granite" doctrine. For example, they will never change their view of who God is, who Jesus is, are the dead really dead? Those are solid Bible teachings. The other things are all interpretation.So, the point is, why should you be chastised or even disfellowshipped for questioning those kinds of teachings, that are subject to change?.............possibly.If they answer, "no" that it will never change, you can either drop it, or use the information in the above paragraph about solid teachings and interpretations, and the difference.Have fun and let us know how it goes. | ||
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| LB | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
So the society are false prophets aren't they? No, they were just over enthusiastic You have to remember that the society changed the meaning of the word prophet to teacher. They are God's teachers not God's predictors. Nice try | ||
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| Shakita | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Good Luck, you're going to need it. Why? Because logic doesn't have a place in the JW dictionary.If they point to a dog and say it is a cat, you must praise God that the society has the insight to see something that you just can't see. In other words, it doesn't matter what you will point out to the elders, they are always right because they have Jehovah God on their side. If you feel like arguing with them, or discussing a point that they will always gloss over with a pat answer, pick a subject that has to do with the life and death decisions the society has enforced on its members. Organ transplant, blood policy...... the issues that God has decided to change his mind on. Why would God sacrifice all these people who were upholding his righteous laws, when he would change his mind years later? I haven't heard a good explanation yet to this one.Mrs. Shakita | ||
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| teenyuck | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Why not tell them NO! NO visits, no phone calls. Since I have not been at the center of a JW witchhunt, I am curious why so many here let the dubs mentally persecute them. Why do you let them in your home? Can't you just ignore the door bell, get caller ID and when they come or call, ignore it. Don't answer. If they know you are home, even better. I must admit, I did dive under my desk (which faces the street) when they came doing door to door work, about 1 year ago. I was suddenly terrified. Then I thought about it and realized that they cannot hurt me. My mother knows I am an apostate (and still wants a relationship) and since she is the only family I have had the last 20 years, I don't have a thing to lose if they DFd me tomorrow. I answered the door and gave them a hard time about the UN and women being in subjection. I would be pissed that they said my name from the podium, however, when it comes down to it, I know they cannot hurt me. Since I grew up in Chicago, the likelyhood that they could even "hurt my reputation" is nothing. It is a big city and I never had contact with dubs outside of the KH. I never worked with any or saw them at the store. I would ignore their calls or leave them a voice mail at the KH that said "Fucx off, leave me alone. I do not want to speak to you." "If you DF me or announce I am DAd I will sue you for libel." "My attorney's name is___________." I think that would shut them up. | ||
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| RandomTask | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
The only time the elders visited me and my wife, it was a couple of months after we stopped going. They knocked on the door when I was sitting on my living room couch, I could see through the side of the blinds that it was them, I just didn't answer the door. I think they called a couple of times but I have caller ID and I screen calls that are blocked so they never got ahold of me or my wife and they just stopped bothering us. As far as I know we aren't disfellowshipped or Dissasociated, nobody has told us anything. We've moved around so much that the only way they could find us now is if my wife's family gave them our address. If she does I just plan on ignoring them. | ||
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
I'm quite looking forward to it actually! I've had a lot bottled in for a long time, but I know I am kidding myself if I ecpect one word to enter their collective dimness. Thanks everyone.Can you think of any specific lines of reason that I can use to entrap them. | ||
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Another way you can help me folks is to tell me what NOT to start talking about. I know certain subjects need a lot of time to discuss and I want to get as much into the few hours as I can. Thanks everyone! | ||
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Teenyduck,Thanks for the advice but I have been building up to this for a while, even so, I didn't expect my mum to go running to them, especially after she has personally checked all of the articles herself and even wrote to the society. But I am not surprised either. The fact that I have had NO phone calls, visits from any member of the cong that I was associated with from a child ( I'm 32 now) is an indictment in itself don't you think?There's been a lot of great material been posted on this site recently and I want to thank everyone for their research. | ||
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| JT | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
What I would like from you is any killer points that you think I can use with the Elders tomorrow (Friday 14th) because I want to give them as hard a time as I can.
I have my dis-association letter ready to give them before they leave but I may aswell have some fun before they do. instead giving your letter directly to the Cheese Cracker Men, why not send it to the WT legal Dept and to 3 or 4 Papers and 3 or 4 local churches telling them why you are leaving- in your letter to the paper outline the changing dogmas that have killed jw 1. transplant2. alternative servicethen throw in the 2 witness rule on child abuse- the churches can be asked to share it with thier members and the papers with their readers this you will make the wt legal dept have to contact the service dept who will have to contact the local congo and by that time --folks in the terrirtory will probably know about it before the elders do i firmly believe that if you are going to turn in a DA letter, (which i normally would not recommend, just in case we might be able to sue wt one day) then HAVE SOME FUN If you spend all that time composing a letter it is possible that only the 2 bro who you give it to may even read it i know where other members of the body didn't even want to read SUCH AN APOSTATE LETTERthe 2 elders told them what it said and that was good enough for them doing it your way - you risk ONLY 2 FOLKS EVERY READING YOUR LETTERDOING IT MY WAY 100'S PERHAPS 1000'S WILL READ IT so have so fun | ||
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| Will Power | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Hi Search....Since the memorial is coming up, what a great topic to show a current flip flop.Kudos to whoever first posted this, (I will try and find) Many are familiar with the countless flip flops and contradictions that can be found in the WT publications of the past (for numerous examples of this see http://quotes.jehovahswitnesses.com). However, in reading through the Jan 15 and Feb 15 WT study articles I believe I have found a "modern day" example of a WTS contradictory statement. It pertains to the status of the "other sheep" as sons of God. __________ Question: Can you rightfully call Jehovah your Father? can any witness? If an average witness (meaning not special class) were to insist they call Jehovah "father" would they have to be discliplined?willIn the Watchtower of January 15, 2003 page 14, paragraph 22 under the heading "Maintain Faith in God's Word" it states: "Jehovah is the Father of spirit-begotten Christians and of their companions with an earthly hope.(Romans 8:15) And faith in our heavenly Father never leads to disappointment." ___________ To encourage the "other sheep" that having faith in God's word does not lead to disappointment, the statement is made that God is the "Father of the other sheep" and the scripture at Romans 8:15 is used to support this. Here is what Romans 8:15 says: For you did not receive a spirit of slavery causing fear again, but you received a spirit of adoption as sons, by which spirit we cry out" "Abba", Father! The WT of Jan 15/03 p14 clearly states that God is the Father of both the "anointed" and the other sheep, citing the scripture in Romans 8:15 to support this. The natural conclusion to reach from this paragraph is that since God is their "Father", the other sheep would of course be "sons of God" as seen in Romans 8:15. The article makes no attempt to discourage this conclusion. However, when we compare this statement with the Feb 15/03 WT we see the exact opposite conclusion drawn from this same scripture. ___________ February 15, 2003 page 19, paragraph 6 under the heading "Attending as Respectful Observers" it states: "Should those now doing good to the remnant of the 144,000 brothers of Christ partake of the Lord's Evening Meal? No. God has reserved that privilege for individuals he has anointed with holy spirit to be "joint heirs with Christ" (Romans 8:14-18)...Since they are not Jesus' joint heirs with a heavenly hope, they attend the Memorial as respectful observers." In paragraph 7 they go on to quote the same scripture in Romans 8:14,15 (regarding being God's sons) as applying ONLY to the anointed. ____________ Since the WTS has long taught that the "other sheep" are not sons of God, is the suggestion that God is the Father of the other sheep (and they are therefore his sons) an error on the part of the WT from Jan 15/03? Or, is this an example of the Society creating ambiguity concerning one of their more distasteful doctrines - namely that we are not all God's sons, only 8,800 people on earth are? It's no wonder JWs are confused about issues like this. First, they are given an article to study in January which makes them feel good about their relationship with God as their loving Father, and themselves presumably his sons. The next month the WTS lets the axe fall and tells the flock that they are most certainly NOT God's sons and how dare they think such a thing! Very sad. | ||
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
JT,Thanks for that! excellent point. The two elders will probably not read it and as you say it limits ant impact.I think i'll do what you say.Thanks Willpower. Great points. | ||
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| AlanF | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
Here's one that's impossible for any JW to answer today. It proves that the F&DS doctrine is false. Ask the elders if they would read a Bible passage and comment on it. Don't let on at first that you're going to be tackling the F&DS question, or they'll refuse to play along and make excuses. Have them first read Matthew 24:36-44 (NIV here): "36 "No one knows about that day or hour, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. 37 As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 38 For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark; 39 and they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away. That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 40 Two men will be in the field; one will be taken and the other left. 41 Two women will be grinding with a hand mill; one will be taken and the other left. 42 "Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come. 43 But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into. 44 So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him." Ask them exactly when "the Son of Man" will come. They'll answer that they don't know, since the event is yet future and is tied to the coming of "the great tribulation" and Armageddon. That's what you want to get them to admit -- that the "coming" is in the future. Therefore the setting of the passage is in the future. This has been Watchtower teaching for about 30 years. Next make a brief comment that verses 45-46 mention "the faithful slave", but you want them first to read Matthew 24:48-51: "48 But suppose that servant is wicked and says to himself, 'My master is staying away a long time,' 49 and he then begins to beat his fellow servants and to eat and drink with drunkards. 50 The master of that servant will come on a day when he does not expect him and at an hour he is not aware of. 51 He will cut him to pieces and assign him a place with the hypocrites, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth." According to present WTS teaching, the events described here are also in the future. Get the elders to admit this, too. You can look up the latest Watchtower comments in the WT-CDROM. Finally have them read the most fundamental passage that exists for JWs, Matthew 24:45-46: "45 "Who then is the faithful and wise servant, whom the master has put in charge of the servants in his household to give them their food at the proper time? 46 It will be good for that servant whose master finds him doing so when he returns." Don't let the elders comment yet, but you immediately point out that it's obvious that the passages immediately before and after the above are yet in the future, so logically this passage must describe future events. Why then, does the Society teach that it had a fulfillment in 1919? They will not be able to answer. You pounce on this and state that this is proof that the leaders of the Watchtower were not "appointed over all Christ's belongings" in 1919, and therefore they are teaching a great falsehood, which makes them false teachers, and therefore -- by their own definition -- false prophets. It is grossly arrogant to take up for themselves a title like "faithful and discreet slave" when the Bible itself proves that this cannot be. AlanF | ||
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| neyank | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
"What I would like from you is any killer points that you think I can use"
Well there are a lot of points that can be brought up.
Failed prophecies.
Changes-flip flops in their teachings.
Claiming that Jesus was enthroned as KIng in 1914 when their is no proof of such an ocurance.
Claiming to be Gods chosen org. when there is no proof at all.
The fact that if God chose the WTS to be His org. in 1914, why aren't they still teaching the things they taught then?
If they get their teachings from God, why do they keep changing them?
Can't God tell them the truth the first time?
The un-Christian way they treat their fellow man.
The rules and regulations they enforce even tho those rules are NOT in the Bible.
The fact that JWs MUST go door to door selling, distributing, placing worthless magazines
in order to score points with God.
Hoping that maybe, just maybe they sold enough magazines, attended just enough meetings, worshiped the WTS just right. that God just might, maybe, there's a slight chance, spare them at Armageddon.
I could go on but, the main point that I would bring out is... Where is the proof that God chose the WTS as His orginization.
In the Bible, any parson that God used had proof that He was using them.
ie: miracles, prophecies that came true, teachings that didn't have to be changed when they were found to be wrong.
WHERE IS THE PROOF GOD IS USING THE WTS???
neyank
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
AlanFSimply fantastic. Thats what i'm looking for! Thanks. | ||
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| searchfothetruth | Re: Elders coming...i'm shaking in my boots...NOT! Any help? | |
NeyankThanks. Ive got all that info just waiting but what do you think would be the ultimate in stumper questions? | ||
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