Many ex-JWs have never read Combating Cult Mind Control

by Londo111 27 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • Londo111
    Londo111

    The general public knows far too little about cults and mind control…and this is reflective of many ex-JWs as well. When I meet up with former JWs, either in person or on the phone, I’m surprised that the majority have never read Combating Cult Mind Control. Of course, I am sure many former JWs do not want to read yet another publication. And we all have the freedom to read or not read what we want. However, I believe it is an important step to healing and understanding, increased freedom.

    Some say, “Oh, I know it’s a cult. I don’t need to read it.” Even so, I believe it would help us understand our friends and family who are stuck within. Even if they are beyond our reach, it helps understand that it’s not their authentic selves doing these things, it is the mind control.

    I believe it would also help avoid things that would activate the cult identity—ie protesting outside a Kingdom Hall during the Memorial. Of course, only a very few go to that extreme, but such activity will not win hearts and minds.

    I often see signs of latent indoctrination: Fear of Armageddon, fear of ex-members, and so forth. One person confessed before the meet up, they were nervous, and the night before they dreamed it ended up being a meetup for child molesters. This from a person who DAed four or five years previously. To their credit, they recognized this as latent indoctrination.

    Of course, there are ex-JWs who’ve left, but never really awakened. They might not believe in the Org, some might not even believe in God or the Bible, but the indoctrination still has a hold on them. Some end up going back, for the lack of knowing of any alternative. Some might go from one cult to another. Some still retain some or most of the JW theology. It is sort of like escaping the prison, but carrying around the chains.

    It goes without saying that the more aware people are of cults and mind control, the more people can empower themselves and put themselves on a more healthy path of their choosing.

  • jean-luc picard
    jean-luc picard

    Many ex-JWs have never read Combating Cult Mind Control

    otherwise it would be a best seller.

    Joking aside Londo, you make a good point.

    jlp.

  • DATA-DOG
    DATA-DOG

    I haven't read it yet.. I should.

  • JeffJ
    JeffJ

    Good point Londo. I have been meaning to read it but the few times I checked in stores it was sold out. I have just ordered it from Amazon though. From the reviews I have read I think it will help me deal with family and help me teach my children to watch out for cult teachings.

    Jeff

  • Shador
    Shador

    Apparently, Hassan has released a couple updated follow-ups - Releasing the Bonds (2000) and Freedom of Mind (2012). While CCMC and RTB, sadly, do not seem to be available in e-book form, FOM is:

    Freedom of Mind for Kindle

    (noting e-books avaliability, since those are easier to hide for ones who still have to put up a front)

  • Londo111
    Londo111

    The power of the first book is that it does not mention JWs. It is not critical of the Watchtower. Steven Hassan had no awareness of the Org at the time. IMO, this makes it a more effective tool, especially when reasoning with people on the verge of awakening.

  • ABibleStudent
    ABibleStudent

    It took me several months from learning about Steve Hassan and "Combatting Cult Mind Control" before I read it. I only studied with an elder for a short period of time. I was a little skeptical that the book would not be very helpful in improving communication with my former friend who is a "Spiritually Strong" (non-thinking) JW and I did not feel like buying a book that I would eventually throw away after reading it.

    One day while at the library I remembered to search for Steve Hassan's name and did checkout "Combatting Cult Mind Control". I was amazed that Steve Hassan was able to describe all the behaviors of my former friend's cult persona that bothered me as well as describe attributes of a dangerous cult (i.e., his BITE model). I wish that I had read "Combatting Cult Mind Control" and "Releasing the Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves", visited his website, and watched his videos on his website about two years sooner than when I first learned about Steve Hassan.

    Most non-JWs do not care about dangerous cults. I have told non-JW friends about Steve Hassan's model and experiences. Most don't care, because they already classify JWs as being a kooky cult. They do not realize how organizations like the WTBTS have victimized 10's of millions of members and how emotionally and psychologically damaging BITE control can be. The do not realize that under the right circumstances they or someone who they love could be recruited into a dangerous cult. And, they would be unable to help a loved one to think critically for themselves until it was too late.

    Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

    Robert

  • Londo111
    Londo111

    Thanks, Robert. That is a really good experience.

    Everyone know Scientology is a cult. But I find that most people believe that JWs are simply nice people. And, of course, they are nice—until the Mind Control kicks in. It’s something I have to explain to many who are not of this background. When I give my experiences, they are floored.

  • fresh prince of ohio
    fresh prince of ohio

    I often see signs of latent indoctrination: Fear of Armageddon, fear of ex-members

    Man, intellectually i am so over it, and I've been out now longer than I was even in it, but, emotionally speaking, for me the above is so true. Sad!

  • sd-7
    sd-7

    Are you serious, Londo? I thought this was like amongst the Top 3 in the Ex-JW Essential Reading List (I just made that up, of course, but I like the sound of it). First thing I started doing more of as I started to wake up was READ, READ, READ. It's a shame that most ex-JWs you've spoken to haven't read that spectacular book. It was life-changing for me.

    I'm still reading 'Freedom of Mind' right now, gradually. I do think 'Combatting' was helpful in not mentioning JWs--at least it worked for me at the time. The format of it is also unique in that I feel like it does a better job of giving you the basics of what cults do early on, whereas the other books tend to put the parts about getting family members out of a cult much more to the forefront. Personally, I would recommend reading 'Combatting Cult Mind Control' first, if possible, then reading the other books.

    One of the particular recurring problems--one I noticed in 'Freedom of Mind' last time I was reading--was that he writes that JWs must use the term "Jehovah" and aren't allowed to say "God". There's some truth in that statement, that is, if you never use the term "Jehovah", you will probably face accusations of apostasy. But JWs do use the term "God" frequently, but they use the name "Jehovah" like they have a trademark on it (okay, well, it is part of their brand name). Even so, I think 'Freedom of Mind' is still more detailed so far in JW issues than any of Hassan's books I've read before. So that's pretty cool.

    Any ex-JW who hasn't read 'Combatting Cult Mind Control' needs to read it. Especially those who are freshly out of the cult. Trust me, it's worth it.

    --sd-7

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