Tera,
Thanks a lot for reminding me of something I somewhat forgot. It wasn't enough to go to meetings three times a week, circuit and district incarcerations 2 and 1 time(s) per year respectively, weekly field service, and the ultimate honor, monthly cleaning of the boogers from the walls of the kingdom hall toilets. No, our family had to study for the programming sessions as well, and it was taken seriously, like the situation you described. The elder's family must look right, sit right, talk right, and have the preprogrammed answers to the questions ready to spit out when the idiot at the lectern asks the questions.
The JW cult sucks all the happiness out of childhood, and savagely attacks a child's self esteem. What a shame that this cult has expanded to it's present level. Hopefully, the internet and sites like this will help reverse the expansion this cult has enjoyed.