It very well could be a question of race and most likely is. I never really saw racsism when I was growing up, because my parents lived in an all white neighborhood and when I saw people of color, I can honestly say I was very afraid. I share that to share this, I am a white woman married to a black man. I have 4 by-racial children and 2 white children. I have seen with my own eyes and ears what I refused to believe existed. It was alittle harder to deal with 12-15 years ago. Now it is a little more common than before. The best thing to do is rise above it, and be the better man,
mamashel