Killing yourself? Thats when they can say to others "See, I told you"....Dont let them do that. Your life is your own, and love for parents is a strong thing, but if you want to talk to them, why not send a card or something......your life IS worth living.
Posts by fairy
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Help, Advice Needed on Not Talking to Parents....
by kitties_and_horses_oh_my! ini feel like absolute s*(& after a long conversation with my sister this afternoon.
she's in the org.
and told me that if i won't have a relationship with my parents then she won't have one with me.
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OMG!!! IT"S HERE!! IT'S HERE!!!
by fairy in.
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i am trying to build up my collection of engelbert humperdinck items........slowly building up!
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fairy
YES!! My new engelbert humperdinck cd finally came today...ooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhh its absolutely wonderful!! mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!! He is my NO.1 favourite singer!!! YES!! YES!! YES!!!
I am trying to build up my collection of Engelbert Humperdinck items........slowly building up!!
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What kind of fairy are you? *** Fluff Alert ***
by Elsewhere inwhat kind of male faerie are you?
take the male faerie quiz.
what kind of female faerie are you?
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What's for dinner?
by sunshineToo inhow do you decide what to have for dinner?
i need to get more ideas.
so what are you having for dinner tonight?.
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fairy
get a thinly sliced piece of beef. dice up some onion and bacon and place some of it on the thinly sliced piece of beef and then roll it up. tie a piece of cotton or string around it, i think you can buy string that you can use in cooking.
then fry it till its nice and brown. make some nice gravy and have it with mashed potatoes and veg
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fairy
I am a typical gemini and my opposite sign is saggitarius (probably spelt wrong)
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Give experiences as to what it felt to be a female in the JW's..
by Country Girl ini can tell you how bad it felt.
it felt bad every time i put some "doily" on my head cuz some fourteen year old baptized freak was saying the pryaer that day.
it felt good when i had to put a napkin on my head, knowing i was the oldest child, because my brother was baptized... and i was older and babysitting him.. to show "submission.".
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its not very nice....apparently all we are good for is doing what we are told, and doing the minor and thankless tasks. and we all know about being in subjection to our husbands....well, i married my husband as an equal to have an equal say.....he doesnt treat me any other way but i couldnt be one of those wives that might as well be saying "yes master" "no master" etc; etc; etc;
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Stay OR Slay
by RAYZORBLADE into anyone who clicks on this thread and cares to post upon it.
i have a few questions for you.
do you value this forum on its ability to keep newbies/recent posters to stick around, therefor: stay.
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fairy
I came across this site after the abuse issue aired here in australia on tv.
I found this site very interesting as some of you are very knowledgeable and offer good reasoning on certain points.
There are some on this board who have very strong opinions on certain things and if i do not agree, i just get on to reading the next item.
Everyone has the right to put their opinions across and i value the input on the odd occasion that i have had something to say, even though the subject may not mean much to someone else but the fact that i can put it on this board is of great value and comfort to me
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memories
by fairy in.
i was feeling a little low in spirits today...just thought i would write down some memories,.. i remember when i was about 6 yrs old, my younger sister and i took off to the beach with a couple of other kids about the same age and we went to the beach...that was about lunchtime on a saturday and we somehow managed to get home about 8 at night....my mother must have been frantic with worry....i feel so sorry for her having to go through that.. i remember her dragging 12 kids to the meetings and everyone was amazed that she could do that...she tried so hard to do the best for us..... i remember when she started studying and she tried really hard to do the right thing ....my uncle who wasnt a witness use to give my mum a christmas cake and then she use to bury it in the back yard....even though when yrs went past she came to her senses and it was just a fruit cake with icing anyway.. whenever we had problems we always went to mum....when we were sick, when we had trouble at school etc etc..... she always had the right advice even though it may not have been what we wanted to hear...somehow she was always right.. when she had to cook dinner, i never realised but she went without meat so the rest of the family could have it.. there were 3 bedrooms in the house and we had a big garage out the back...so dad made one half of the garage into a bedroom so some of the boys could sleep out there which left a small rectangular bit..so he made that into another bedroom so 2 of the girls could have it and us other 3 girls slept in the bedroom in the house.. i remember going to the markets with mum and dad and he would carry a sack around and put things in there they would buy and he would buy cashews....they are my favourite.. my mum never really had a holiday in those yrs....wasnt till later on in her life when the kids were older that she would go interstate to visit one of my sisters...my dad worked a lot to bring money into the house.
i remember when there were assemblies in another state, she would start putting money away to save for it and we stayed with other people for the assembly because she couldnt afford accommodation for 12 kids plus herself....my dad wasnt a witness.. there are a lot more memories i have but this list would be too long.... i love my mother sooo much and as i type this i cry because she has been gone for 3 yrs dec 12 this yr and my dad will be gone 6 yrs dec 29 this yr.. as i got older i vowed to myself i would try not to answer my mother back or make her upset because i knew that one day she would be gone and i would never forgive myself ....i "talk" to her every night and tell her how much i love and miss her...she is my heart and my soul.... thats all i can tell for now, there will be more another time.. thanks for listening.
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fairy
I would like to thank you all for your comments.
Its good sometimes just to write things down like this on the board as i find it gives me a release so to speak.
My mother taught us all well, and even though we are not all perfect, we got as close as we could by the way our mother brought us up. She did the best she could in life and I am sure wherever she is she will continue to do so....
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memories
by fairy in.
i was feeling a little low in spirits today...just thought i would write down some memories,.. i remember when i was about 6 yrs old, my younger sister and i took off to the beach with a couple of other kids about the same age and we went to the beach...that was about lunchtime on a saturday and we somehow managed to get home about 8 at night....my mother must have been frantic with worry....i feel so sorry for her having to go through that.. i remember her dragging 12 kids to the meetings and everyone was amazed that she could do that...she tried so hard to do the best for us..... i remember when she started studying and she tried really hard to do the right thing ....my uncle who wasnt a witness use to give my mum a christmas cake and then she use to bury it in the back yard....even though when yrs went past she came to her senses and it was just a fruit cake with icing anyway.. whenever we had problems we always went to mum....when we were sick, when we had trouble at school etc etc..... she always had the right advice even though it may not have been what we wanted to hear...somehow she was always right.. when she had to cook dinner, i never realised but she went without meat so the rest of the family could have it.. there were 3 bedrooms in the house and we had a big garage out the back...so dad made one half of the garage into a bedroom so some of the boys could sleep out there which left a small rectangular bit..so he made that into another bedroom so 2 of the girls could have it and us other 3 girls slept in the bedroom in the house.. i remember going to the markets with mum and dad and he would carry a sack around and put things in there they would buy and he would buy cashews....they are my favourite.. my mum never really had a holiday in those yrs....wasnt till later on in her life when the kids were older that she would go interstate to visit one of my sisters...my dad worked a lot to bring money into the house.
i remember when there were assemblies in another state, she would start putting money away to save for it and we stayed with other people for the assembly because she couldnt afford accommodation for 12 kids plus herself....my dad wasnt a witness.. there are a lot more memories i have but this list would be too long.... i love my mother sooo much and as i type this i cry because she has been gone for 3 yrs dec 12 this yr and my dad will be gone 6 yrs dec 29 this yr.. as i got older i vowed to myself i would try not to answer my mother back or make her upset because i knew that one day she would be gone and i would never forgive myself ....i "talk" to her every night and tell her how much i love and miss her...she is my heart and my soul.... thats all i can tell for now, there will be more another time.. thanks for listening.
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fairy
i was feeling a little low in spirits today...just thought i would write down some memories,.
i remember when i was about 6 yrs old, my younger sister and i took off to the beach with a couple of other kids about the same age and we went to the beach...that was about lunchtime on a saturday and we somehow managed to get home about 8 at night....my mother must have been frantic with worry....i feel so sorry for her having to go through that.
i remember her dragging 12 kids to the meetings and everyone was amazed that she could do that...she tried so hard to do the best for us....
i remember when she started studying and she tried really hard to do the right thing ....my uncle who wasnt a witness use to give my mum a christmas cake and then she use to bury it in the back yard....even though when yrs went past she came to her senses and it was just a fruit cake with icing anyway.
whenever we had problems we always went to mum....when we were sick, when we had trouble at school etc etc....
she always had the right advice even though it may not have been what we wanted to hear...somehow she WAS always right.
when she had to cook dinner, i never realised but she went without meat so the rest of the family could have it.
there were 3 bedrooms in the house and we had a big garage out the back...so dad made one half of the garage into a bedroom so some of the boys could sleep out there which left a small rectangular bit..so he made that into another bedroom so 2 of the girls could have it and us other 3 girls slept in the bedroom in the house.
i remember going to the markets with mum and dad and he would carry a sack around and put things in there they would buy and he would buy cashews....they are my favourite.
my mum never really had a holiday in those yrs....wasnt till later on in her life when the kids were older that she would go interstate to visit one of my sisters...my dad worked a lot to bring money into the house.
i remember when there were assemblies in another state, she would start putting money away to save for it and we stayed with other people for the assembly because she couldnt afford accommodation for 12 kids plus herself....my dad wasnt a witness.
there are a lot more memories i have but this list would be too long...
I love my mother sooo much and as i type this i cry because she has been gone for 3 yrs dec 12 this yr and my dad will be gone 6 yrs dec 29 this yr.
as i got older i vowed to myself i would try not to answer my mother back or make her upset because i knew that one day she would be gone and i would never forgive myself ....I "talk" to her every night and tell her how much i love and miss her...she is my heart and my soul...
thats all i can tell for now, there will be more another time.
Thanks for listening
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What if ... the Watchtower charged for books/magazines ???
by run dont walk ini've been out of the borg for awhile, so help me out on this.. am i to assume that the watchtower went from charging for magazines to a donation system, simply because of paying taxes ???
didn't jesus say "return caesar's things to caesar".
so if the watchtower would of continued charging for magazines, so they would have had to pay a little tax, they still would have made a ton of money, and alot more then the donation system pulls in.
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fairy
Over here in australia they dont charge but ask for dontations......i think it has to do with the GST tax that came in a little while ago.