It doesn't turn me on...
how 'bout knowing you've contributed to a moment of cognitive dissonance for a loved dub, on whatever topic, giving them pause?
it's rare for me, but it feels great when that happens. it kind of seems to soften the sharpest edges of my loved dub, making him a wee little more tolerable each time we interact. then again, there are times when it feels altogether pointless, too. mostly i don't get caught up in it, but once in a while it feels great to stand up for my perspective against all odds of ever being understood.
S.