if it becomes obvious to strangers on an internet message board that you should get therapy/counseling:.
my wife and i are in therapy both separately and together.
we're not crazy; we're getting help talking through issues we've never had to face before from a professional who knows how to talk us through things.
Lots of advice here so I will keep it short and sweet.
To me a therapist is not someone that can change all that happened or is happening to you it can help you learn how to deal with/handle it.
Also will help you understand why you/we got involved with the crazy JW's in the first place as they don't literally chain and drag you to their meetings did they.... (not born ins)
Snoozy
1) i think it's ridiculous to tell anyone when and how to use something they paid for ( computers and internet service ).
2) i think it's ridiculous to tell married couples how to act in the bedroom.
3) i think it's ridiculous to tell people what kinda cars they should buy ( 4 door for fieldservice ).
Obviously you aren't a mother...
I tell those things to my grown kids all the time..
"You paid WHAT for that?"....
Snoozy
husband woke up this weekend in pain with soreness right above the heel on his foot .
by sunday he was in so much pain he could hardly walk .
monday his doctor said it looks like an old injury because there is calcification around the area ,and that most likely the tendon had been torn before and might be on the verge of rupturing completely .
Well I did some reading and it sounds a lot more intense than my knee. They mention casting either with or without surgery for up to 6 months.
I saw a picture of one and it looks like there is a swollen area right above the heel.
Surgery I think was Micro but sounded more involved than mine being it was a muscle involving the calf of the leg..I can imagine the pain he must have been in..I would recommend getting it fixed as soon as possible. I know how bad a charley horse can be, hubby used to wake up screaming and holding his leg with them. He couldn't put his foot down to walk because the pain was so intense! his scream used to make me jump straight up out of bed while I was still half asleep!..lol
Snoozy,
ps ..let us know what happens..
husband woke up this weekend in pain with soreness right above the heel on his foot .
by sunday he was in so much pain he could hardly walk .
monday his doctor said it looks like an old injury because there is calcification around the area ,and that most likely the tendon had been torn before and might be on the verge of rupturing completely .
I had surgery to correct some torn ligaments in my knee, may not be the same. But it was a mini surgery where they just make little puncture holes to operate. The shaved the frazzled torn ligament and scaped some calcification off the knee..no pain after and felt great after that. All my pain went away..remarkable..
I was able to walk on it right away but no steps for a few days and no driving. May be different for a ankle area..
Snoozy
abba - dancing queen (1976).
even now, the japanese people love this music.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=reeluors1pq.
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In my driver's license my hair looked just like hers in the 80's...had to have that Farrah look!..
Wish my scanner worked! Darn.
Snoozy..
i figured it would be fun if i wrote this, went for a shower, and then came back to check how many have responded!.
just to set the scene, im currently a jw in the uk but i am having issues with my sexuality.
i have just come back from the ministry with a group of brothers!
I like to think I am open minded but not so much so that my brains fall out...
Snoozy,
ps..Thanks for the You tube..
well that was 93 years ago so well probably never know all the facts.
but the wt claims that russell and others were falsely accused of sedition.
the may 9, 1918 new york times article that covered these arrests and sedition charges states that they were charged with spreading doctrines calculated to promote unrest and disloyalty among the men of the army and navy.
I thought it was for bootlegging....
Snoozy
there is too a hell, and it is for children.. this thread is dedicated to all children who have been mistreated.
this is for those of us who were not jw's and for those of us who were.. for posting stories, personal experiences, poems, articles and songs dedicated to this subject, i start this thread.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxysi5y-xoq.
They have a Dateline NBC on tonight about children being bullied by other children and how they react. Often children that are abused become easy targets for other kids that like to bully. It should be interesting if you have kids and may help you talk with them about how to handle it.
Snoozy..
It's on at 6 pm KSDK in the midwest
there is too a hell, and it is for children.. this thread is dedicated to all children who have been mistreated.
this is for those of us who were not jw's and for those of us who were.. for posting stories, personal experiences, poems, articles and songs dedicated to this subject, i start this thread.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxysi5y-xoq.
I have a facebook friend in Hawaii...
I wonder if she could find him? Take a picture?
Where at in Hawaii? Do you have a name you can message me?
Snoozy
what movies have you seen go so hand in hand with the wt to the point where you can use its storyline to explain to somebody what it is like being a jw.
i used the movie "the island" with scarlett johnassen to explain it to a workmate.
she completely understood what it is like being a jw it after i made the comparison.
Soylent Green......(The only alternative they see for the future )
Snoozy
