1. Do you still believe JWs have "the truth"?
2. Do you secretly look down on or feel sorry for the person because he or she is not a JW?
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Are you dating this person out of rebellion or youthful indiscretion
and will kick him/her to the curb once you "grow out of it"? These are excellent valid reasons to ask oneself outsiderlookingin to anyone considering marriage outside.