My father was df'd when I was 12 and the overbearing CS became the family father figure. He was a pervert who had all of the young people's names recorded at the local police station. He told me that himself. He was
to be called anytime we did anything wrong. That's not normal.
Yes, loyalty to the organization was always placed above any family loyalty. Like Band on the Run said, we were robbed of our childhood and don't know what we were meant to be or could have been. Actually I feel the
world was robbed of what we could have given to the world. I feel like Marlon Brando when he said "I could have been a contender, I could have been somebody." That, I think, applies to us all.