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  Should all elders be painted with the same brush?

  by Socrateswannabe in

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  an hour or two ago, i was reading a topic on this forum that welcomed new elders to jwn.

  there was some criticism aimed at the op and i understand that elders shouldn't be singled out as special.

  one poster said he/she hates all elders.

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  Socrates-I agree with you, there were many kind, sincere elders I have known in various congregations. There are a few who are total jerks, but somehow, I think they maybe acting with an enthusiasm similar to what Aaron's son, (Phineas ?) did. Basically going overboard in their 'jealousy' for Jehovah. These ones are over the top, looking for every infraction. Militant. They are lauded for their spiritual purity and so on, so it feeds their frenzy.

  I empathize with your being trapped, and admire your honesty that you don't have the courage to openly leave...that is a very difficult row to hoe and no here should judge you negatively for wanting to protect yourself from the messy fall out.

  Wishing you the best.
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  contribution

  by kokyong.soon3 in

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  for a long time the congregation that i am in,it used to meet in the homes and no expenses were incurred for the plce of meeting.but,now they are convening in a rented place and congregation expenditure suddenly shoot up.currently the monthly contribution is about $500 whereas the expenditure is $600.i wonder who is going to pay for the deficit..

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  kokoyong-It is difficult for homeowners to have meetings in their homes, I had one in my home for awhile and the wear on your house can be difficult to watch. Plus, you have to keep it super clean, which can be difficult to do when you are a working mother with a baby. No one offers to come over and help you clean like they do the Kingdom Hall. I'm not surprised that the congregation where you are is now renting a place, maybe the homeowners got tired of all the thankless work they were expected to do.

  They will probably make the attendees feel guilty enough to contribute the shortfall in funds that is now occuring.
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  Caleb's Prayer To Jehovah After Trashing Sparlock To Keep Jehovah From Experiencing A Major Depression

  by frankiespeakin in

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  please click the louis armstrong video and read.. dear jehovah i approach you in jesus name this is what i want to say:.

  yesterday i tossed my farvorite toy "sparlock the warrior wizard" in the garbage can because my mommy who is one of your witnesses said it would make you sadly depressed.

  i beg for your forgiveness in jesus name, if i had known before hand i would have never excepted this gift from johnny my worldly friend who mommy said was most likely going to be destroyed at armageddon because his parents are worldly and make you very sad because they are not jehovah's witnesses like my parents.. and after thinking the matter over i decided to burn sparlock just to make sure you forgive me, i'm so so sorry i made you sad please don't take my life at armageddon.

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  frankie-You are a mind reader! As a little kid, I used to pray like that (without the arm removal & eye poking-out stuff) that Jehovah wouldn't kill me for some crazy infraction...so sad! Kids are really made to feel that they are worthy of death in the borg.
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  Former Long Time Elder, New Member

  by James Jackson in

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  i have served 20 years as an elder, 5 years as an ms. was on the district committee in 2010, held various positions on the district , circuit, and rbc level.

  probably been on more than 100 judicial committees and even an appeals committee.

  was the coordinator in our congregation and deleted because adult child was df ( i kicked him out at the time of his wrongdoing, but that wasn't enough for thr brothers).

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  Welcome James, nice to have another former elder here too.
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  John the BAPTISER vs John the BAPTIST - which do you prefer?

  by PaintedToeNail in

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  i have always wondered why, as jw's, we would always say jt baptiser instead of jt baptist like everyone else.

  it bugged me, so i refused to say it.

  does anyone know why the wtbts uses the 'baptiser' moniker instead of the norm?.

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  I have always wondered why, as JW's, we would always say Jt Baptiser instead of Jt Baptist like everyone else. It bugged me, so I refused to say it. Does anyone know why the WTBTS uses the 'Baptiser' moniker instead of the norm?
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  Today Is TotallyADD's 5th Birthday

  by Reopened Mind in

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  no, he is not 5 years old, he is 59 today.

  totallyadd like many of you was raised in the cult and not allowed to celebrate his birthdays.

  he was always on the outside looking in, deprived of cake and comraderie.

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  Happy, Happy Birthday, TotallyADD!
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  west Virginia outcasts

  by infernosdante in

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  iwas given my leper status(df)12/1/2011,i was in princeton wv,was curious if anyone i knew from west virginia was on here.

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  inferno-Welcome.
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  Time for a quiz! Guess when this happened!

  by likeabird in

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  let's enjoy yet another meeting-free tuesday night with a quick quiz.. .

  here's your clue:.

  in the space of ten years, this religious organization produced and distributed over 23 million publications.. .

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  Mormons?
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  Blondie's Comments You Will Not Hear at the 06-02-2013 WT Study (NAME)

  by blondie in

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  jehovahs witnesses view gods name?.

  gods people that he really would.

  non-jews, became a people for [gods].

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  bump
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  Ugh... Have to learn to keep my mouth shut

  by dissonance_resolved in

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  so my mom was telling me that my aunt is going to be hosting a gb member and wife, cos and do for dinner after their dc this summer.

  i immediately blurt out, "that sounds stressful.

  " which is met with dead silence.

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  We had the CO and Wife over for lunch. They were delightful. His last name was Adams. He was Jewish by birth, and his wife was an outspoken woman for a JW wife. After they left our circuit, we heard that he had a heart attack from the stress of being a CO. The doctors allegedly told him his 'job' was killing him, after they learned what it was he did. I don't know what happened to that couple, I hope they are happy wherever they are.