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READ MY MOLESTER'S LETTER NOW!

by morrisamb in

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to read my father's (my abuser) letter:.

click on link: a letter from my molester .

Shybaby

To whom it may concern:

I am posting this message in the responce to "My molesters letter" (for those that are confused check out www.Fatherstouch.com) I am a younger member of the family (second generation). There are a few things that I would like to make clear in this post. For one I am so Proud of my Uncle and everything he is doing to start the healing process of "our family". He doesn't know this but it is because of him that I am learning how to release my past and start building my future as a survivor and not a victim. Yes I to am a "Survivor" from a sexual abuse situation (not by the man that wrote the letter just to be clear on that). Now it was nothing like My Fathers, Uncles, and Aunt's was but it is still hard to get over! It is not easy being a victim if you don't have the drive to be a survivor!!! Now in regards to that letter, I don't even know where to begin. Well I could start with saying that I truely know in my heart that EVERYTHING that man has said about "my" family is a load of lies. I can't believe he has the nerve to tell everybody he is a "Christian"! For one if he was a "Christian" he would be a God fearing man. And anyone knows that a God fearing man would never write a letter of lies and garbage to make his family (that has been hurting from the core all these years) look like the Monsters!!!!!!!!!! He is a low life, anal retentive, sick headed, piece of dirt in my eye's, and there will never be anything that he could say or do to altar my opinion on him! And when he gets to the doors of heaven (if he does) I have a feeling he'll be knocking on it for a long time! He can sit back all he wants and dig up excuse after excuse to hide the fact that he is not, and never will be concidered a "real man" by anyone one with even half a brain. If he was he would never try to condemn his family for how they live each day, knowing damn well that he is the creater of this whole mess. Now I know that he has not changed and that he is still the same man he was back then no matter what his previous wife and or current wife have stated. Because if he did change, don't you think that he would try to find way's to to show that he is truely sorry for what he has done? No instead he digs up things that try to make hiself look better to everyone else, Brings up the law to scare his victim so he can't express hiself (which won't work by the way, "my" family is not easily scared) and last but not least forgets to apoligise in that bull crap letter of his, to any member of the family for what he has done to them? Like his saying he used against My family, "People in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones". (mentioned in the "letter from my molester at www.fatherstouch.com), I to have a saying that he can eat and enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"YOU MADE YOUR BED, NOW YOU CAN LAY IN IT" (because you have no choice!)

Thank you all for taking the time to read my post! And I will write another one soon! P.S. It would be such a reward if I knew my GrandFather (biologically only!) knew what I really thougt of him!!!!!

Shybaby

Edited by - Shybaby on 25 July 2002 0:16:15

Edited by - Shybaby on 25 July 2002 0:17:10

Edited by - shybaby on 25 July 2002 9:56:25

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My molester responds to my book, Father's Touch...

by morrisamb in

my molester sent an 8+ page letter to the krant van westvlaanderen in belgium in response to their extensive coverage of my book (that original coverage can be seen by scanning down the page at: http://www.fatherstouch.com/about.htm).

the editor has refused to publish even an edited version of it [if you read it, you will understand why].

my molester asked that it be sent to me!

Shybaby

To whom it may concern:

I am posting this message in the responce to "My molesters letter" (for those that are confused check out www.Fatherstouch.com) I am a younger member of the family (second generation). There are a few things that I would like to make clear in this post. For one I am so Proud of my Uncle and everything he is doing to start the healing process of "our family". He doesn't know this but it is because of him that I am learning how to release my past and start building my future as a survivor and not a victim. Yes I to am a "Survivor" from a sexual abuse situation (not by the man that wrote the letter just to be clear on that). Now it was nothing like My Fathers, Uncles, and Aunt's was but it is still hard to get over! It is not easy being a victim if you don't have the drive to be a survivor!!! Now in regards to that letter, I don't even know where to begin. Well I could start with saying that I truely know in my heart that EVERYTHING that man has said about "my" family is a load of lies. I can't believe he has the nerve to tell everybody he is a "Christian"! For one if he was a "Christian" he would be a God fearing man. And anyone knows that a God fearing man would never write a letter of lies and garbage to make his family (that has been hurting from the core all these years) look like the Monsters!!!!!!!!!! He is a low life, anal retentive, sick headed, piece of dirt in my eye's, and there will never be anything that he could say or do to altar my opinion on him! And when he gets to the doors of heaven (if he does) I have a feeling he'll be knocking on it for a long time! He can sit back all he wants and dig up excuse after excuse to hide the fact that he is not, and never will be concidered a "real man" by anyone one with even half a brain. If he was he would never try to condemn his family for how they live each day, knowing damn well that he is the creater of this whole mess. Now I know that he has not changed and that he is still the same man he was back then no matter what his previous wife and or current wife have stated. Because if he did change, don't you think that he would try to find way's to to show that he is truely sorry for what he has done? No instead he digs up things that try to make hiself look better to everyone else, Brings up the law to scare his victim so he can't express hiself (which won't work by the way, "my" family is not easily scared) and last but not least forgets to apoligise in that bull crap letter of his, to any member of the family for what he has done to them? Like his saying he used against My family, "People shouldn't throw stones if they live in glass houses"(mentioned in the "letter from my molester at www.fatherstouch.com), I to have a sayin that he can eat and enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"YOU MADE YOUR BED, NOW YOU CAN LAY IN IT" (because you have no choice)

Thank you all for taking the time to read my post! And I will write another one soon! P.S. It would be such a reward if I knew my GrandFather (biologically only!) knew what I really thougt of him!!!!!

Shybaby

Edited by - Shybaby on 24 July 2002 22:2:32