Yes, I did think I should add that, to paint a better picture.Ok.
You misunderstood what I meant by 'for reasons unrelated'. The reason she was DF'd was in no way related to the moving in with her BF - that move-in happened afterward, she was DF'd for a vice.Oh ok. So she's a smoker... or liked a little pot here and there?
Her last marriage lasted just shy of 30 years (far more than 4) and she's been interested in no one else since, which has been nearly a decade, until I came along and decided it was high-time that I did get together with one of the dearest and closest people to me - that's a reality we share and very much agree on.Ohhhhkkkk. So that changes the dynamic quite a bit. So she's been married (basically) 30 years. You said in your very first sentence she is your close friend for over 30 years ("30+"), but your girlfriend for about 1.5 years, and she has not been interested in anyone for about a decade after her previous marriage (last paragraph). Assuming she got married young, that puts her about 60 years old, and you've been her close friend from about age 30 (around 10 years into her previous marriage) when she wasn't a JW because she was DFed for "a vice". We're you also a close and dear friend with her previous husband?
But just to be clear, we're dealing with a 60+ year old woman, and I assume you are around the same age, a full time pioneer, living with a worldly man, having great sex. In fact you go on to say that "she truly IS a 'naughty', worldly girl, and excels at it".
This doesnt make sense - you keep talking about imposed beliefs. Either she believes it HERSELF or not. There nobody pointing a gun at her head. She could leave tomorrow, a simple choice. And yet if she really believes the JW ideology, her concern would not be to figure out a way to dodge consequences. She would run to the elders and away from you.
So what gives?
No, she was specifically scared back into it. I have, through the years, talked to her about it, about why she persists in it. Fear is a giant factor.Fear of what? It doesn't seem to be anything the religion is teaching... and you say: "...in all the years I've known her - not in the least, she is incredibly social and surrounded." So it not social fear.
In short: She's going to be DFed. No way to avoid it, except to live a lie and hide for rest of her life. But she shouldn't care, based on what you've said. She should just throw up her hands and leave.
But she does care. So she's living a lie anyway, except with you. Either you are trolling us, or she is trolling you.