Nice to have a place to freak out instead of calling friends or familly. i like the anonymity
frigginconfused
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Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused inheres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
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Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused inheres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
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frigginconfused
Im talking to her about it right now. Good advice. You were about 5 minutes after i contacted her. lol
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Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused inheres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
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frigginconfused
Just to let you all know more. Im in my 30's. So im not a kid. I was married 10 years and thats why all the fuss. I dont wanna screw up anymore of my life. Got snipped so no chance of oops babies. I wear protection so no disease.
Just really do want to please God. Not hurt this girl. And protect my integrity in the process.
Im not here asking for permission. I could care less what everyone thinks. Im still gonna do what I think best. But im not stupid. Its always better to hear others viewpoints on things. You get no new info just in your own head.
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Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused inheres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
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frigginconfused
Thanks. Its got me in knots. I know what the bible says about fornication. But I have heard some viewpoints on that...
Its about self serving hooking up just to get yours. And my morals dont agree with this either. So Im with the bible on that. But in a commited relationship where both people are connecting on a deeper level I just cant see whats wrong with that.
Im aware that sex before marriage can cloud things. I know this from personal experiance. Its another reason Im having so much trouble. I stayed alot longer than I should have with a girl that I got in too deep too fast. Before I knew it a few years had past and Im living with someone I really dont like. I had to wake up and get outa there. So this has me scared.
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Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused inheres the situation.... met a girl i am tottally infatuated with.
i could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny.
im a normal dude so i dont want to refuse her.. i cant decide if im rationalizing my feelings.
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frigginconfused
Heres the situation...
Met a girl I am tottally infatuated with. I could just hang out with her and not have sex but she has not been in a relationship in a year and shes pretty horny. Im a normal dude so I dont want to refuse her.
I cant decide if Im rationalizing my feelings. The JW mindset is still a bother so I cant see clearly.
On one hand I tell myself dont do it. It will cloud my judgement and hers to see if we are good marriage mates. She will fall in love too fast from getting that involved and I will overlook things I might not if I wasnt clouded. And I dont want to loose Gods favor.
The other hand says to do it. This wouldnt be a self serving experiance. I truely want to please her. And I feel she truely wants to please me. So this isnt some random selfish hookup. It would be very loving. Because of the JW crap in my head I dont take anything they teach seriously anymore. Im more of a love and peace hippy. Whats wrong with connecting with someone on that deep level? That kind of thing doesnt feel wrong. No one gets hurt. Everyones needs are met. And love is the motivating force behind it.
I am having too much trouble being neutral on this. I need an outsiders view.
I do believe in God and the bible. So plain old logic wont work. Or else I would go for it. Displeasing God is what this is all about. So please reply with my beliefs in mind.
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What would you ask Satan?
by frigginconfused inif you could send in questions to the news media for an interview with the devil what would you ask him?
no sarcasm please.
this is meant to be a serious topic..
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frigginconfused
The_Present_Truth Wow! Thats what I was looking for. You were great!
I started this thread because I think to truely know the whole story you have to hear both sides of it. The JW's shy away from thinking about satan and how he works. From a military standpoint this is completley flawed. I want to know everything I can about the enemy. Or if Im even on the right side!
Keep em comin!
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What would you ask Satan?
by frigginconfused inif you could send in questions to the news media for an interview with the devil what would you ask him?
no sarcasm please.
this is meant to be a serious topic..
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frigginconfused
Cmon you guys gotta be better than this! No room for serious thought?
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What would you ask Satan?
by frigginconfused inif you could send in questions to the news media for an interview with the devil what would you ask him?
no sarcasm please.
this is meant to be a serious topic..
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frigginconfused
keyser soze be nice
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What would you ask Satan?
by frigginconfused inif you could send in questions to the news media for an interview with the devil what would you ask him?
no sarcasm please.
this is meant to be a serious topic..
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frigginconfused
jwfacts Good one!
Peaches1978 Why did you bother?
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Do you measure ingredients when cooking?
by compound complex inin julie & julia, ms. child's collaborator says it doesn't matter; julia says it does matter.
i can see its being important when writing a book but how about when cooking up daily fare?.
coco un rien de sel.
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frigginconfused
If you know why the ingredients do what they do you can disregard the recipe for your own taste. I usually can improve on a recipe. But baking is more of an exact science. I measure for that. Baking soda and powder are more chemistry than cooking.