I was reproved in private...or so I thought, but it seemed everyone knew something was happening. Then starts all the rumours and outright lies,
ie: one sister saw me taking drugs. I was sleeping with anything with breasts and a pulse when infact I was a virgin and to this day have never even tried drugs.
In my opinion, the Elders who knew the details of your daughters abuser but failed to warn are as guilty as he is.