Be your own person.
After we tell you what you can or can not wear.
What facial hair styles you may or may not have.
What you may or may not celebrate.
What hotels and food options you may or may not do at conventions.
What kind of music and the volume of the music you may have at your own wedding.
Who you may or may not invite at your own wedding.
Not allowed to pursue a rewarding career.
Should not put your health first.
Should not put your family first.
Should not pursue hobbies.
Should not have too much fun or entertainment.
Not allowed to make friends with outsiders.
Not allowed to celebrate your own or others birthdays.
We determine what clothing and styles you may wear.
Not allowed to vote or participate in society.
You must spend all your free time in service.
Must study all of our repetitive literature on how you must obey us each.
Go to all our meetings teaching how obeying us is vital to your salvation.
You must shun anybody who doesn't agree to worship us and listen to our every word.
After all of these addendums, "be your own person"