Do you think she is interested in you? Has she expressed interest before? Have you been her confidante through the divorce? I'm in the midst of a separation, and I know how hard it is. It's friggin lonely, you've lost your self-confidence, you are scared of being alone for the rest of your life... It sucks... I don't know your relationship but maybe rather than answering bluntly, tell her that you know that someone is going to come along who thinks she is sexy & pretty, and as her friend, you know she deserves someone who will see her in that way, it just takes time.
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32I do not know what to say to my female friend yet.
by asilentone inmy female friend just got divorced recently, i was shocked to see her email few minutes ago and she asked me if i think she is sexy and pretty?
i do not know what to say to her since i do not find her attractive.
i consider her as a friend, thats it.
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Why I am an atheist
by Awakened at Gilead insomeone (a born-again exjw) on youtube asked me why i was an atheist... i crafted a brief response... it follows:.
1. religious reason: there is no proof for god outside of the bible.
once i dropped my belief in the bible, the judeo-christian concept of god fell apart like a house of cards.
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megs
Lance,
As usual, you present logical arguments. Unless you suffer from cognitive dissonance (which most of us have at some point) one can't refute what you are saying. Sometimes I think it was easier believing in God, but it was blind-faith, it's not like God ever spoke to me, or showed me his presence... Those who say they've experienced God are, in my mind, projecting their desires as opposed to accepting their realities.
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If you ask a question on this site.....
by cluless inessential answers.
irrelevent answers.
inventive answers.
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megs
methinks John Doe's response would be an irreverant answer!
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Invisible Things of Him... are Clearly Seen, Being Understood by the Things That are Made
by Perry in.
an image of the core of the whirlpool galaxy m51 (ngc 5149) taken by the hubble space telescope.. the heavens declare the glory of god; and the firmament sheweth his handiwork.
psalms 19:1.
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megs
So um, anyone have a bible verse refering to Mary on a piece of toast? Don't you think you might be reading into that a little bit?
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Canadian West Coast....what's it like??
by digderidoo ini have a friend who's emigrated to vancouver this year.
a few days ago he invited me over for next year, i am seriously considering it.
i have looked on the net about it, but wondered from anyone here who's been there or living there what's it like?
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megs
The weather in Vancouver is very similar to the UK... Vancouver is a very cosmopolitan city, quite modern... Great cultural scene, the cost of living has made it prohibitive in the past though. I love it there, and would move given the opportunity!
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I've Got To Tell This!
by snowbird inone of the police officers here is a transplanted new yorker who was raised as a jw by his g'ma.. he and i talk a lot about his jw experience, his g'ma, and his children (boy age 18, girl age 11).. his kids are both talented athletes (tennis) and the son won a tennis scholarship to university.
he hopes the daughter will follow in her brother's footsteps.. mr. officer mentioned that one saturday, after a particularly strenuous workout, he gave his daughter a bottle of red gatorade to drink.
he said she resisted drinking it at first, but he put his foot down and made her do it.. well, come sunday, he got an urgent message at work that he was to call home immediately.
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megs
Wow, that just brought back memories... When my time first started my mother was out of town so dear dad (also a policeman) had to give me the talk and get me the right "equipment"... Poor man, in retrospect, it must have been absolutely mortifying for him!
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megs
Maybe they own shares in the company that produces them...
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never done fluff...but what movies or songs make you cry?
by oompa inya....as you know i am pathetic...a cryer.....oompa.
there are even some andy griffith shows that make me cry..... i wrote a song that almost always makes me cry when i play it....but cant post it as it would totally out me...in case my other revealing threads have not...tired of the game.....oompa.
i know it is pathetic...but sleepless in seattle make me cry...and ya...i love the soundtrack................. .
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megs
My dad passed away on the last day of summer, and for some reason Chad & Jeremy singing "A Summer Song" always brings tears to my eyes... Movies... An Affair To Remember, I watched it because of Sleepless in Seattle and it still makes me cry everytime... Also, the end of Breakfast at Tiffany's when she throws cat out of the taxi! *sniff sniff*
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Deceptive or just wrong?
by johnnyc ini have been virtually non-stop studying everything i can get my hands on with regards the wtbts, and "apostate" literature and information.
in all honesty, 80% at least is non-sense and over critical.
however, i do find about 20% (if i have to create a percentage reference) is appropriate in its line of reasoning and questioning.
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megs
Speaking as a never-been-a-dub... If you have been grievously hurt by someone or something, and you feel you have been lied to and deceived, it is natural to attack and condemn that which caused you this anguish... You are quite right in saying that a lot of people are quite vociforous in their condemnation of the WTS, but I think the intent is honourable. I think that the intent of an active JW preaching door to door is usually just as honourable... It's a matter of perspective really. Those inside condemn those outside and vice-versa. Who is right? I believe that the folks here have more of the "truth"; the information they access is no longer controlled by the WTS, and most have learned how to think critically instead of blindly following the lead of the WTS.
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Deceptive or just wrong?
by johnnyc ini have been virtually non-stop studying everything i can get my hands on with regards the wtbts, and "apostate" literature and information.
in all honesty, 80% at least is non-sense and over critical.
however, i do find about 20% (if i have to create a percentage reference) is appropriate in its line of reasoning and questioning.
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megs
Looking at a date other than 1975... If you have read any of the correspondence between the WTS and Carl Olof Jonsson in the 1970's, it is quite obvious that they chose not to investigate his claims or his extensive research. Is that deceptive or wrong?