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  Jesika's one-year anniversary was yesterday!!!!

  by cruzanheart in

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  2. friends

  now, granted, she doesn't have as many posts as minimus, but she is no less beloved and necessary to the personality of this forum.

  happy anniversary, jesika!!!!!.

  may your life be happy always!.

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  Jesika

  Sorry it has taken me this long to respond to this thread.

  I have truely enjoyed my yr here so far and have met so many ppl I just couldn't imagine not in my life.

  You guys are great!!!

  Love you all!!!!

  Jes
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  For Jesika and PR_Capone :)

  by riz in

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  hey you two!

  ever since i heard the good news i haven't been able to get this song out of my head.

  i'm very happy for you!!

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  Jesika

  Thanx riz, that was very thoughtful of you!

  Love,

  Jes
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  OH . . . MY . . . GOD!!!!!!!!!!!! READ THIS!!!!!!!

  by cruzanheart in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so i get up this morning, usual time, slog through the shower and come out to the living room yawning.

  there on my sofa are jesika and pr_capone, grinning like two little kids.. guess what!!!!!!!

  they're getting married!!!!!!!

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  Jesika

  Thanx for all the support everyone!!!!

  of the *butterflies in stomach class*

  Jes
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  OH . . . MY . . . GOD!!!!!!!!!!!! READ THIS!!!!!!!

  by cruzanheart in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so i get up this morning, usual time, slog through the shower and come out to the living room yawning.

  there on my sofa are jesika and pr_capone, grinning like two little kids.. guess what!!!!!!!

  they're getting married!!!!!!!

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  Jesika

  Well, in answer to the whole "step dad" ?, I haven't told my son yet and will break the news slowly. It was kinda a sper of the moment thing, so I don't want to shock my son.

  OH ANYONE WHO HAS MY # DON'T CALL IT!!!! I DON'T LIVE THERE ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  Thanx for all the support guys!!

  Love,

  Jes
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  LANDMARK DECISION - Vicki Boer vs Watchtower Society

  by Uzzah in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  as most are aware, vicki boer has been long awaiting a decision to be handed down in a case she started against the society in canada.. the decision was handed down today.

  as with any 55 page decision, it will take some time for the legal experts to hash it over and decipher what was said.

  but, in a nutshell..... vicki won.

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  Jesika

  (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Vicki)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  I am so proud of you!!!!!!!! You have done what most of us have dreamed!!!!!!

  I know it isn't a perfect ending, but it is opening up for new beginings!!

  Chin up girlie!!!! You are one tough cookie!!!!!!

  Love lots,

  Jes
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  Growing up a gay Jehovah's Witness (My Life Story)

  by m0nk3y in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i feel the need to express how i feel and felt about my life as a gay man.

  i was brought up from birth as a jehovahs witness.

  this has played a major part in my life and it has been a real struggle to get past.

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  Jesika

  ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Josh)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  I am glad you didn't take the story down, that was very moving!!

  I am glad you got better physically and you are now healing emotionally as well.

  I was raised a JW as well and experimented with my sexuality, not the same but I can relate a little about the guilt feelings tied to being "close" to a person who is the same sex.

  I just want to say thanx for posting your story, you will help someone out there who is feeling as you once did. You may never know it, but I am sure you have helped many by opening up and sharing this with us.

  You know I love you so much hon!!!!!! You are a kind and loving person that I always enjoy talking to when I have been given the pleasure. Give your man a big hug for me! I am glad he has brought happiness to your life!! You deserve it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  Much love,

  Jes
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  How do you want to 'go'?

  by dmouse in

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  of course, nobody really wants to die, but if you had a choice about how...how would you like to go?.

  some people i know would like to pop their clogs after a game of golf, some in the pub with friends.. personally, i want to be shot in bed by a jealous husband when i'm 96.

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  Jesika

  Quickly!!!!

  Going out in your sleep is nice, but if I had to choose........I just want it to be quick!!!

  Not an illness that slowly makes me see death everyday getting closer and hurting everyone around me to see me in pain.

  So, I vote for quickly......whether it be a car accident, hit by a bus, shot, whatever.....just quick!!!!

  LOL @ petespal!!
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  Do You Feel That Your Parents "Did a Good Job" Raising You?

  by minimus in

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  2. friends

  being raised a witness, my mother has asked me whether or not i held her responsible for her bringing me up in the way that she has.

  i feel that my upbringing is something my mother can be proud about.

  even though i do not believe in the "truth", i do feel that she did a good job of raising us.

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  Jesika

  Wow, what a loaded ?

  I think my parents tried as hard as they could to raise me the way they thought was right.

  It has taken me a LOOOOOOOONG time to understand that. Now that I have a son of my own, I understand better how hard it is to make the right decisions and not to fully understand the impact it will have later on in their life.

  The mindset of a child verses the mindset of an adult looking back on what they thought was fact growing up in their home........well.........as a parent you really can't plan that.

  I was severely abused in my home, and to this day I don't and won't fully understand that, especially now that I have a child of my own.

  All I know is I have to let go of the way I was raised to do a better (hopefully) job then my parents did.
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  Happy B'D to me, Happy B'D to me, la la la

  by Trotafox in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  yep...july 1. almost a firecracker.

  trot .

  : "life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we may as well dance.

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  Jesika

  HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!
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  Just wanted to say goodbye

  by Aztec in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm going to be offline for quite a while.

  i'm moving this weekend and the computer i use belongs to my sister.

  since i will no longer be living with her i won't have daily access to a computer.

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  Jesika

  Awwwwwww Aztec!!!!!!!!!!! I miss you already too honey!!!!!!!!

  You have my #, don't be afraid to use it ok????

  You have lots of good things ahead of you for you and your son, chin up baby, come back when you can!!!!!

  ((((((((((((Az and son)))))))))))

  Love,

  Jes