Posts by tenderheart

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Aging

by freeme in

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since im a teenager there is one thing that never ceases to scare and fascinate me.

aging.

as a witness i didnt think much about, but since i started thinking it gives me shudders.

tenderheart

hi, live life to the fullest, travel the world,find your passion, make good freinds, find the love of your life, have children when your older, they give life meaning,

you will always feel 18, even if your body betrays you when you get old, but if you have had a life full of adventures good freind wonderfull children and even grandchildren, you will feel it has been worthwhile, and you will always have some thing to live for.

i wish you love and happinness in the adventure of life tenderheart :)

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i've been hurt by a witness

by tenderheart in

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a jehovahs witness has destroyed my marriage and reputation , she told my husband horrible things about me and told him,.

he's young he should leave me and find some one else, she told every one that would listen that my childrens farther is a peadophile,.

he's never even been to court, so people in the area shun me and my children, she's judgemental she gossips, she's bullied me and my children for years, she's very demanding and is aways after some thing, i fell out with her because i was very depressed and could not cope with her, she's called me terrible things in the street her family have terrorised me and my family in our home, my children have been victimised and accused of horrible things, when i was really depressed she told me i had done nothing for her thats why she is being horrible to me, not one week went by in twenty years when she did'nt ask for some thing, i said no once to her she wanted 80.00 just after the birth of my daughter, she started a row and did not speak to me for 5 years, i'm really hurt as this woman was really hard to cope with she often upset me and i always made excuses for her, turned the other cheek and she turned on me and my children over some thing that should have been sorted out with kindness, i'm so sad i don't know how to stop hurting..

tenderheart

hi, you are all so kind i'm overwelmed by the big response thank you, it's so nice not to feel so isolated allthough i have very lovely family the are not close by, and i do not like to burden them .

i felt sorry for this freind she has such a sad and awfull childhood, i tended to overlook bad behavior, i thought if i showed her

kindness it would show her how to be nicer, but really if i gave her what she wanted and did what she wanted, she could be really sweet, i'm quite shy, she's really chatty and out going, towards the end though i could see her for what she was and was trying to break away from her a bit, and not have so much to do with her, i think it was this that caused such a severe outburst when we fell out, this woman does suffer from depression, and she's not young, i would not like to do any thing to make her more angry, i worry about my children they are teenagers i thank God they are really good and sensible, i do not want to make this family any worse towards us, and thankfully apart from their 10 year old, telling younger kids in the street to call my children names, they seem to be leaving us alone.

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i've been hurt by a witness

by tenderheart in

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friends

a jehovahs witness has destroyed my marriage and reputation , she told my husband horrible things about me and told him,.

he's young he should leave me and find some one else, she told every one that would listen that my childrens farther is a peadophile,.

he's never even been to court, so people in the area shun me and my children, she's judgemental she gossips, she's bullied me and my children for years, she's very demanding and is aways after some thing, i fell out with her because i was very depressed and could not cope with her, she's called me terrible things in the street her family have terrorised me and my family in our home, my children have been victimised and accused of horrible things, when i was really depressed she told me i had done nothing for her thats why she is being horrible to me, not one week went by in twenty years when she did'nt ask for some thing, i said no once to her she wanted 80.00 just after the birth of my daughter, she started a row and did not speak to me for 5 years, i'm really hurt as this woman was really hard to cope with she often upset me and i always made excuses for her, turned the other cheek and she turned on me and my children over some thing that should have been sorted out with kindness, i'm so sad i don't know how to stop hurting..

tenderheart

i'm not being stalked, just horrible gossip, they leave us alone but it's horrible and lonley, i split from the childrens farther and remarried.

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i've been hurt by a witness

by tenderheart in

jw
friends

a jehovahs witness has destroyed my marriage and reputation , she told my husband horrible things about me and told him,.

he's young he should leave me and find some one else, she told every one that would listen that my childrens farther is a peadophile,.

he's never even been to court, so people in the area shun me and my children, she's judgemental she gossips, she's bullied me and my children for years, she's very demanding and is aways after some thing, i fell out with her because i was very depressed and could not cope with her, she's called me terrible things in the street her family have terrorised me and my family in our home, my children have been victimised and accused of horrible things, when i was really depressed she told me i had done nothing for her thats why she is being horrible to me, not one week went by in twenty years when she did'nt ask for some thing, i said no once to her she wanted 80.00 just after the birth of my daughter, she started a row and did not speak to me for 5 years, i'm really hurt as this woman was really hard to cope with she often upset me and i always made excuses for her, turned the other cheek and she turned on me and my children over some thing that should have been sorted out with kindness, i'm so sad i don't know how to stop hurting..

tenderheart

i am having bible studies in my home once a week with a witness, the person who has been horrible to me is a baptised witness and i cannot believe she has been so cruel , i went to see her feeling depressed and used as her daughter had lied to me and manipulated me, i'd been crying , i thought my freind would be kind and help me to feel better, i was so shocked she treated me like a liar and a trouble maker, i've always been kind to her, never called her names and always been polite and helpfull, her daughter has been a nightmare up untill the last couple of years, lying, stealing, swearing at, even hitting her mother.

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i've been hurt by a witness

by tenderheart in

jw
friends

a jehovahs witness has destroyed my marriage and reputation , she told my husband horrible things about me and told him,.

he's young he should leave me and find some one else, she told every one that would listen that my childrens farther is a peadophile,.

he's never even been to court, so people in the area shun me and my children, she's judgemental she gossips, she's bullied me and my children for years, she's very demanding and is aways after some thing, i fell out with her because i was very depressed and could not cope with her, she's called me terrible things in the street her family have terrorised me and my family in our home, my children have been victimised and accused of horrible things, when i was really depressed she told me i had done nothing for her thats why she is being horrible to me, not one week went by in twenty years when she did'nt ask for some thing, i said no once to her she wanted 80.00 just after the birth of my daughter, she started a row and did not speak to me for 5 years, i'm really hurt as this woman was really hard to cope with she often upset me and i always made excuses for her, turned the other cheek and she turned on me and my children over some thing that should have been sorted out with kindness, i'm so sad i don't know how to stop hurting..

tenderheart

a jehovahs witness has destroyed my marriage and reputation , she told my husband horrible things about me and told him,

he's young he should leave me and find some one else, she told every one that would listen that my childrens farther is a peadophile,

he's never even been to court, so people in the area shun me and my children, she's judgemental she gossips, she's bullied me and my children for years, she's very demanding and is aways after some thing, i fell out with her because i was very depressed and could not cope with her, she's called me terrible things in the street her family have terrorised me and my family in our home, my children have been victimised and accused of horrible things, when i was really depressed she told me i had done nothing for her thats why she is being horrible to me, not one week went by in twenty years when she did'nt ask for some thing, i said no once to her she wanted £80.00 just after the birth of my daughter, she started a row and did not speak to me for 5 years, i'm really hurt as this woman was really hard to cope with she often upset me and i always made excuses for her, turned the other cheek and she turned on me and my children over some thing that should have been sorted out with kindness, i'm so sad i don't know how to stop hurting.