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  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

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  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

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  mtsgrad

  Mighty minimus
  
  Just looking for opinions. I hope that is allowed on this board.

  I promise you I will not hold the board accountable for my actions!
  
  mtsgrad
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  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

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  mtsgrad

  Lola

  So that I can say that I was honourable?
  What about my wife being honourable. Since I have faded I have lost every person I loved. I have no one who cares about my honour.

  Hurt my wife
  What has my wife been doing for 7 years (I was and am not the perfect husband, but lets be reasonable here).
  
  Go nuts afterwards?
  I just feel I have nothing to lose. Knowing my luck I will get run over on the morning of the affair!
  
  Thanks

  mtsgrad
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  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

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  2. 
  3. 
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  mtsgrad

  Gregor

  Thanks for your observations.

  Undermining my self image?
  Unclear what you mean. As an adult I can and will live with my decision.

  Discipline
  I would suggest that 7 years is more than discipline!
  
  Meaningless
  Absolutely. There is everychance I will never meet this woman again (unless I choose to).

  Revenge
  Excellent point. You have got me thinking. I think there has to be an element of that, just unclear how much.

  Keep it simple
  The way I see it Gregor is life is short and the world will not end over one or two i ndiscretions.
  
  Cheers
  
  mtsgard
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  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

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  2. 
  3. 
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  mtsgrad

  Finally-Free

  So did you have an affair. PM me if you wish. Any regrets?

  mtsgrad
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  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
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  mtsgrad

  Newborn

  Thanks for your input. After 7 very miserable years and the first year was not much better I feel I will have no regrets. Jah is not going to strike me down. My missus could try and slow down the divorce and I'll just get angrier. Life is too short just to sit and watch it go by. I am leaning towards going for it.
  Big cheers
  
  Paul
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  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
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  mtsgrad

  Finally-Free

  After 7 yrs, self respect is not the main thing on my mind!
  Cheers

  mtsgrad
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  125

  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

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  2. 
  3. 
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  mtsgrad

  digderidoo

  Had not looked at it that way. Guess I was still enslaved by old WT thinking.
  Cheers
  
  Paul
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  125

  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

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  2. 
  3. 
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  mtsgrad

  My wife is getting 50% of all my wealth anyhow. It is extremely unlikely I will get found out.
  Thanks for your input
  
  mtsgrad
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  Give me a reason not to have an affair/one night stand

  by mtsgrad in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am extremely close to having an affair.

  let me give you some details.. been married for 8 years.

  not had any relations for 7. faded 3 years ago.. in middle of getting divorced.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
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  mtsgrad

  I am extremely close to having an affair. Let me give you some details.

  Been married for 8 years
  Not had any relations for 7
  Faded 3 years ago.
  In middle of getting divorced
  
  Please give me a reason not to have an affair. I will give serious consideration to all posts.
  
  Thanks

  mtsgrad
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  Is it possible to truly love your hubby, wife, partner, lover etc and still

  by mtsgrad in

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  have an affair?

  just curious.

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  mtsgrad

  As many of you will know I just married Mary recently and love her more than life itself. But I travel a lot and that does bring certain opportunities. I have not done anything yet but who knows?

  mtsgrad