Good for you for rising above the congregational "politics".
It's a different world and a different generation. The older folks could make a decent living without college, but it's much too difficult in today's culture without a college degree. They don't understand this yet.
The Society's fear that one will develop independent thinking in college is clouding their counsel. That's all they see and they are probably right, but today's youth are smart and savvy and won't be duped like the previous generations were IMO.