Thanks you guys... She has had her contact reduced since she took my partner to court for a 'defined contact order' she was seeing the boys every other weekend & every wed, he has been the one over the years to establish contact with their mother, left to her she'd have run amok. The court have recognized something a miss with this woman & reduced contact in the interim of the case. When my partner brought up the issue of Xmas/B'day non-celebrations, she didn't mention one word about her (so called) faith, NOTHING! She just does this to her boys, I find it very disturbing, what will the outcome be when these boys turn into men? She is a pathalogical liar, abusive, aggressive (we have had to involve the police a number of times because of her violence), she has never contributed one penny, provided zero - now what does Jehovah make of that? Can I stop her talking this nonsense ? she's out all the time on drugs at partie's & telling her kids that Jehovah won't be pleased with them! ARGH! soooo frustrated.
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Children + Xmas = Confusion!
by ohdeborah inhi everyone, i must say this is a very interesting site my problem at the moment is this- i live with a fantastic guy (ex jw) he has 2 boys, 9&11, & i have a son - 9, we all live toghether as a 'blended' family .
unfortunately his ex-wife is a very difficult person to deal with.
she has recently had her contact with her son's reduced to 6 hours a week.
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Children + Xmas = Confusion!
by ohdeborah inhi everyone, i must say this is a very interesting site my problem at the moment is this- i live with a fantastic guy (ex jw) he has 2 boys, 9&11, & i have a son - 9, we all live toghether as a 'blended' family .
unfortunately his ex-wife is a very difficult person to deal with.
she has recently had her contact with her son's reduced to 6 hours a week.
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Hi everyone, I must say this is a VERY interesting site My problem at the moment is this- I live with a fantastic guy (ex JW) he has 2 boys, 9&11, & I have a son - 9, we all live toghether as a 'blended' family . Unfortunately his ex-wife is a very difficult person to deal with. She has recently had her contact with her son's reduced to 6 hours a week. This woman has never celebrated birthdays or a xmas with the boys, which we have done for the past 5 years, since my partner discovered the truth about JW's. This woman says to her children she IS a witness- but she DOESN'T go to the meetings, although she DOES read her bible in front of the children. In fact she celebrates Xmas by attending seasonal parties & going to a friends house on Xmas day for a 'meal' ...She celebrates her own Birthday & her friends B'day's. She SMOKES cigarettes & cannibas, she drinks excessive amounts of alcohol & has casual sex. She scares the boys by saying - God won't like it if you celebate Xmas! How can this woman profess to be a JW? Acting in this way is damaging towards her kids??? She has been involved with the JW's for 20 years on & off & has NEVER been baptised. How can I stop her using such harmful beliefs/LIES. It's totally WRONG! thanks DEBORAH