hi guys,
i am new here and cant beleive what i see here. talking about personal details. it is like have any telmarketing trying to get you "suck in" to their business. i used to be a j.w and left because i felt i needed not to be there anymore.. however gossip about others are very common and very much will get twisted around alot. as we call this "chinesse whisper", it happens in workplace, school, media,.anywhere and people love it because they are getting attention they need to keep going. but leaving the one odd out. this is sad. that why is it very important to say to yourself " i am ok, god accept me as who i am", because he created who i am, so why shouldd i have to change because of this one belief?
if your happy in yourself, then it is not going to bother others, rather take it serious and get scared of it because it is exactly what they are trying to do so that you would go back!!. say to them next time you see them.. with a humor. oh yeh, did you hear so and so said this about it.. what a laugh, but heartly and honestly, loving way. you wil find this gossip about you will die down if you dont "react" to the situation.
funnily, they act more of the evil side than anything, in meaning as they are trying to get to get down and say ok ok i wil come back and be save.. before you know it.. it all goes back to number one shit.
chow