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  I need some help/advice :-(

  by rr8483 in

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  dear friends,.

  i'm sorry for barging in like this, but i really need some advice.

  i am not jw, but my boyfriend is.

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  rr8483

  Thanks for all your help and advice, anything new to add please feel free I'd appreciate it!

  RR
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  32

  I need some help/advice :-(

  by rr8483 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  dear friends,.

  i'm sorry for barging in like this, but i really need some advice.

  i am not jw, but my boyfriend is.

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  rr8483

  If anyone has MSN Messenger could you add me? [email protected] so we can talk a bit more...
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  32

  I need some help/advice :-(

  by rr8483 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  dear friends,.

  i'm sorry for barging in like this, but i really need some advice.

  i am not jw, but my boyfriend is.

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  rr8483

  But he says he loves me, and that he wants to get married in the future....

  He also says that he wants me to meet his parents, because he is proud of me....

  I'm worried about what he will say when I bring it up...because he doesn't know that I'm concerned about it. We had a conversation about it a while ago and it's never been mentioned since.

  I REALLY really really don't know what to do, and where to start when I talk to him.
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  32

  I need some help/advice :-(

  by rr8483 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  dear friends,.

  i'm sorry for barging in like this, but i really need some advice.

  i am not jw, but my boyfriend is.

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  rr8483

  Other questions:

  Does each congregation have a 'NAME' or something to distinguish between them? Because I have seen photos of people wearing badges with their names on them and what congregation they are from.

  I'm so confused and worried about this and I really REALLY appreciate any information/advice that anyone can give me.
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  32

  I need some help/advice :-(

  by rr8483 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  dear friends,.

  i'm sorry for barging in like this, but i really need some advice.

  i am not jw, but my boyfriend is.

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  rr8483

  His parents live in another country where he comes from, he now lives in the UK. I have never met his parents, but they do know about me. He doesn't mention what they say about me. I met his sister once though.

  I guess I just have to talk to him about it and get the truth out of him. We have a very active sexual relationship.

  RR
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  I need some help/advice :-(

  by rr8483 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  dear friends,.

  i'm sorry for barging in like this, but i really need some advice.

  i am not jw, but my boyfriend is.

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  rr8483

  Thank you so much for your reply. It's really upsetting me that he thinks that he can't talk to me about it :-( It's like he feels that he is embarrassed and I don't know why :-(

  I personally, have no objection to JW although I do find some of the beliefs hard to take in. Can you tell me more about the sorts of things tha JW are supposed to take part in. Apart from meetings?

  I think it's best if I find out more first and then I can try to understand better!

  RR
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  I need some help/advice :-(

  by rr8483 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  dear friends,.

  i'm sorry for barging in like this, but i really need some advice.

  i am not jw, but my boyfriend is.

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  rr8483

  Dear Friends,

  I'm sorry for barging in like this, but I really need some advice. I am not JW, but my boyfriend is. Or at least, he says his family is JW and that he was brought up in that religion.

  He said that when you are old enough, you can decide whether or not you want to be baptised into it or not, and he told me that he has not been baptised. However, I think he still practises the religion but am not 100% sure. I'm really worried because he seems to be very secretive about it and doesn't tell me anything about it, and sometime I think he has even lied to me about it. I'm also worried because I know that JW are not supposed to ''relate'' to a non-JW in a romantic way. But is this true if he has not been baptised?

  I do know a lot about JW because I have quite a few family members who have joined. I was wondering if anyone would be so kind as to help me out here in how I can get him to talk about it a bit more openly, because I am a very open-minded person and would like to find out more. Also, would I be accepted by his family members?

  It would be great if someone could help me out here as I feel sort of clueless in a way.

  Thanks

  RR