well here is an update on my situtation with the Jehovah's Witness. Some time last week he had told me that he loves me. I don't believe him when he says it, due the fact that he only known me for 3 months. I also told him that he didn't love me because when a person loves another they will do anything for the other. he then asked me what i wanted him to do, i replied "leave the witness." he then tells he has truck payments, insurance to pay for and no place to live at.(because he might get kicked out by his parents if he leaves the witness). i then questioned him " your willing to turn your back on god then?" "maybe" he answers. i have decided to take a week from everyone and just be by myself. yesterday i told him it's either me or god and that he has to decide by the end of my week away. so i'm not sure what is going to happen. but i'll leave an update when it does.
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i have been seeing a jw
by chineseprincess infor about 2 months i have been seeing a jw male.
he is as sweet as can be.
he just makes my heart melt.
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i have been seeing a jw
by chineseprincess infor about 2 months i have been seeing a jw male.
he is as sweet as can be.
he just makes my heart melt.
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chineseprincess
auntiejane, the jw is the one who called me those names. it was my ex-boyfriend of 3.5 yrs that called me those names.
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i have been seeing a jw
by chineseprincess infor about 2 months i have been seeing a jw male.
he is as sweet as can be.
he just makes my heart melt.
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chineseprincess
thanks guys for your input, i will do my best to deal with this situtation i have with him and the guys in my life. but for you information, friday we said our last goodbyes. so i will have the time to find myself. i told him it was fine that we keep talking but only standard talk. i spoke to him last night and he tell me that he loves me and he doesn't know what to do. i replied to him, you only know me for 2 months and you say you love me. i kinda of believe him and in a way i don't think he really does. he is probable just confused. he also supposely dated a girl in hs(before he was batized) and did things with her(no sex) and friday he goes and tells me that he didn't do anything with the girl and that i'm his first this and that. so i got upset because if lied to me about that then there is probable many more lies within. he said that he had a fling with the girl from hs because he didn't want me to laugh at him. i hate his gosh darn excuses. i'll probable tell him straight out, that if doesn't take me as i am then screw him
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i have been seeing a jw
by chineseprincess infor about 2 months i have been seeing a jw male.
he is as sweet as can be.
he just makes my heart melt.
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chineseprincess
for about 2 months i have been seeing a jw male. he is as sweet as can be. he just makes my heart melt. just last week i asked him again "if i don't convert what will you do" he replies "then i'll have to say bye bye" i then became sad again. i then told him that i'll miss him then. after that for 3 days we didn't talk but today he wants to spend time with me and take me out to dinner. Last night i asked him "you don't want to get emotionally attached, do you?" he said that he thinks he's already is. We had already had sex 6 times, after the fourth time he told his congregation and he told them that he wouldn't do it again, yet he did. And he haven't told them yet. i have heard from many people about what i should do with him, but there is a part of me that feels that he won't care what they think and just be with me. life sucks at times.