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  What should I do?

  by Shimmer in

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  i just got a call from a very sweet sister from the kingdom hall, telling me that i am her householder for her talk tomorrow night.

  i have not been to a meeting since november.

  i have managed to avoid elder's calls.

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  Hi shimmer, this may sound silly but does she have an answering machine and if she does call when you know she wont be home and just discreetly say i wont be able to make the meeting tomorrow could you please find another householder, and i must say i am a little surprised that you havnt been to a meeting since november and she actually called you.

  On another note your comment about the repurcussions of da, my sister drifted away quietly and was not active for over 18 months, in which time not one elder went to see her, but as soon as someone in the congregation decided to gossip that she was living with a guy they actually disfellowshipped her, so your never going to be free from their watchful eyes.
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  disfellowshipping and suicide

  by LyinEyes in

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  my mother had been a faithful witness for 16 yrs, she got addicted to prescription drugs and things got very bad for her.

  she overdosed one nite and was put in rehab.

  she began smoking after rehab and was disfellowhipped for it, she got a letter in the mail .

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  So sorry for your loss lying eyes, i know how it feels to feel trapped and think suicide is the only way out, the wtb&ts do have alot to answer for.
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  Who remembers Cake Nights?

  by 2SYN in

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  <fluff> .

  at the book studies?

  they were the highlight of the month.. thing is, all the sisters would try to outdo each other making nice food, which amused me no end, and also kept my stomach filled up, but drove me nuts, because my mother would spend the entire afternoon making a giant racket in the kitchen and screaming @ my sister whilst doing it, just to bake a cool cake for the book study.. also, remember those last ~15 minutes before the end of cake night book studies?

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  I remember the cake nights very well, and i believe they still go on in the local congregation, monthly, the first monday night in the month to be exact, and i remember the afternoons making the cakes trying to outdo sister so and so, i remember the pizza nights, we had the honor (excuse me while i puke) of having the book study at our house, we also had a pool table and you would be surprised how many would hang around after the meeting to hopefully get invited to stay and play, it was rather annoying whe your favorite tv show was going to be on and you really wanted everyone to leave.
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  Apostates in Kingston Ontario,here I come!

  by Beans in

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  well i am going to kingston this weekend for my annual hockey tournament,we will be getting very drunk and searching for any willing women at the iron horse or as we call it the aluminum pony.

  the weekend is never complete without a visit to the local kingdom hall for urinal relief!.

  beans,the travelling apostate!!

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  Hi beans, have a drink and a pee for me too please.
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  One day your gonna get caught

  by chezza in

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  just thought it would be fun to see all the ways people have been caught in the middle of something, i recently was so embarrassed as i travelled to canada to visit my boyfriend, after we went to the movies we got rather heated in the car shall we say, mind you the car was packed away from all other cars, needless to say as soon as we got our pants down and started to get into motion ;-) a light shone through the window of the car, and guess what, a nice security guard was standing there, i was so embarrassed, he told us we shouldnt be doing that here, what made it even more embarrassing was the fact that we were both over 30 years old and i never ever got caught in the act when i was a teenager, oh wait thats coz i was a dub and didnt have a life.. so come on guys and girls give us all a laugh and tell us your story.

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  Hi beck,
  yes that did happen and lol at you, i once gave a talk as we did, and when i got back to the seat then a nice sister came up to em and told me the zipper on my skirt was undone, and guess who wasnt wearing a petticoat, shame on me, my stupid husband must have been blind, and i want to hear more on the westgate bridge please, lol, not to mention the trams we have here, oh but thats another story over coffee.
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  One day your gonna get caught

  by chezza in

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  just thought it would be fun to see all the ways people have been caught in the middle of something, i recently was so embarrassed as i travelled to canada to visit my boyfriend, after we went to the movies we got rather heated in the car shall we say, mind you the car was packed away from all other cars, needless to say as soon as we got our pants down and started to get into motion ;-) a light shone through the window of the car, and guess what, a nice security guard was standing there, i was so embarrassed, he told us we shouldnt be doing that here, what made it even more embarrassing was the fact that we were both over 30 years old and i never ever got caught in the act when i was a teenager, oh wait thats coz i was a dub and didnt have a life.. so come on guys and girls give us all a laugh and tell us your story.

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  ahh so we have a voyer in our midst, lol only joking.
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  Should religious claims be tried in court?

  by sleepy in

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  most people of the western world believe that the freedom to speak and express your opinion is a fundemental "right" of humans.. but how far can free speech go?.

  what if i owned a cigarette firm, and i wanted to say on the packet, "somking is very benifical for you".

  am i using my right to free speech, or am i misleading other people?.

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  Wow alamb,
  Good for you, just a question though how did they respond to the court order? My children live half with me half with their father and they still go to the meetings with their dad, although my own family shun me they go out of their way to let my kids know they dont have to talk to me because jehovah doesnt like it, and they even told my kids that i am dead in jehovahs eyes. Wish i had this court order.
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  Danielson's Vacation

  by Danielson in

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  i know i haven't been on here in a long time but right now i'm dealing with some issues, besides my stupid ass mistake.

  but, hopefully i will be back.

  just wanted to drop a line to the few that may be wondering.

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  Hey danielson hope to see you back here soon, i had my cable suspended so i havnt been in chat for a while, just reading the forums on dial up is slow enough, see you soon i hope and take care.
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  One day your gonna get caught

  by chezza in

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  just thought it would be fun to see all the ways people have been caught in the middle of something, i recently was so embarrassed as i travelled to canada to visit my boyfriend, after we went to the movies we got rather heated in the car shall we say, mind you the car was packed away from all other cars, needless to say as soon as we got our pants down and started to get into motion ;-) a light shone through the window of the car, and guess what, a nice security guard was standing there, i was so embarrassed, he told us we shouldnt be doing that here, what made it even more embarrassing was the fact that we were both over 30 years old and i never ever got caught in the act when i was a teenager, oh wait thats coz i was a dub and didnt have a life.. so come on guys and girls give us all a laugh and tell us your story.

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  Just thought it would be fun to see all the ways people have been caught in the middle of something, i recently was so embarrassed as i travelled to canada to visit my boyfriend, after we went to the movies we got rather heated in the car shall we say, mind you the car was packed away from all other cars, needless to say as soon as we got our pants down and started to get into motion ;-) a light shone through the window of the car, and guess what, a nice security guard was standing there, i was so embarrassed, he told us we shouldnt be doing that here, what made it even more embarrassing was the fact that we were both over 30 years old and i never ever got caught in the act when i was a teenager, oh wait thats coz i was a dub and didnt have a life.
  So come on guys and girls give us all a laugh and tell us your story.
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  Pet Peeves

  by patio34 in

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  anyone have any pet peeves they'd like to air?

  here's one that just happened at work that is an annoyance for me: when you are speaking and the person interrupts the conversation with a corny play on words or the like.

  for example, "i had to sit on the phone on hold for about 5 minutes, waiting .

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  I have a long list of pet peeves but the two that irritate me the most is the lazy people who live with you that cant take the empty toilet roll off and put a fresh roll up or they do but throw the empty on the floor so I can clean it up for them, and another one is men who cant put the bloody seat down after they go.