@flamegrilled
I like you - you seem to be lucid, which makes a pleasant change :-)
The point is far more simple than that. We can acknowledge that it is possible that a higher being has a reason for doing something that appears unloving from our standpoint - but only because we have incomplete information.
Most things are possible. That's why we invented probable.
250k drowned people for no reason = christian bible god probably doesn't exist.