I wanted to start a thread on this subject too... LOL. I'm glad you did!
I forgot it was memorial night, alas alack... But I made plans to go out drinking and dancing with one of my best friends. We had an awesome night out and danced to some fun old skool music. Oh yeah, and I got asked for ID too which was quite thrilling! I'm 33 in a month and over here the legal age is 18. hahaha if I'm passing for around 18 I'm cheering!
And then I got into work this morning and had an invitation to go the memorial in there. My first invite in 5 years! I'm a fader so it's not like they are not allowed to talk to me... Ah well. too late. hehehe