this is my first post on this site... i will post more details of my story later.. my spouse has obtained an unscriptural divorce.
does anyone know where that leaves me as to my being free to remarry?.
i noticed the following in the elders manual, the wording seems to contradict itself.
I should have mentioned that my spouse has not commited adultery that I am aware of, nor does she plan to. She is a man hater, was raised by a man hater and has no plans to remarry or get involved with any man, at least for now.
I guess it just becomes a standoff as to who can go the longest.
Bubba
this is my first post on this site... i will post more details of my story later.. my spouse has obtained an unscriptural divorce.
does anyone know where that leaves me as to my being free to remarry?.
i noticed the following in the elders manual, the wording seems to contradict itself.
Thanks for all of your comments..
I am still active, but have my doubts as many here do. The big problem for me with jumping ship is all of my family is in the org.
However I do not see myself remaining single for the rest of my life. This was my spouses action not mine. It does not seem right for one to be tied forever to be single because of the rejection of another.
What I don't understand is the quote from the Elders manual. The way I am reading it, it says that I am free to remarry, however I have never heard of this case before my own.
I know when the time comes I will do what my heart tells me to do even if I get DF over it. I am still young and don't see myself remaining single for the rest of my life because my x-wife is a man hater.
Bubba
this is my first post on this site... i will post more details of my story later.. my spouse has obtained an unscriptural divorce.
does anyone know where that leaves me as to my being free to remarry?.
i noticed the following in the elders manual, the wording seems to contradict itself.
This is my first post on this site... I will post more details of my story later.
My spouse has obtained an unscriptural divorce. Does anyone know where that leaves me as to my being free to remarry?
I noticed the following in the ELDERS manual, the wording seems to contradict itself. Does anyone who is or has in the past been an elder know where the congregation would stand on this?
quote:
"A person who commits adultery after having been
divorced by his or her mate on unscriptural grounds would
be Scripturally free to remarry, since he or she had already
been rejected by the mate that obtained the divorce.
The case of adultery would be dealt with by a judicial
committee. "
Any advice or comments would are welcomed.
Regards, Bubba
