I had promised myself that I would not post on this topic, but I cannot seem to stop myself. Here is my 2 cents.
I think there is another reason why some Americans show pride in being a citizen of this country, or being male, or white, etc. I think I fit into that category.
A mother who did not show prejudice raised me from birth and taught her children to show no prejudice. We were taught to consider ourselves less than others (I don’t remember the scripture reference) There were some things that happened in my teens that started changing my feelings toward some people. I will not go into the details because I believe some on this forum would immediately dispute what is in fact truth and more anger would be caused.
What I have seen over the past several decades is a growing animosity towards “Americans” but when you analyze what that means, it comes down to this. Women are given a pass because of course they are gentle people and do not start wars etc. American Indians are given a pass because “Americans”(?) have victimized them, black people are given a pass because they were victimized and made slaves, homosexuals are given a pass because they are victims and are not violent people.
You can go on and on until you arrive at just exactly who are the “Americans” that are seen as the bad people. White, straight, Christian men.
I believe there are ulterior motives in all this. I have seen white men in power kissing the rear ends of all sorts of people for years now and all that is accomplished is more blame and accusations heaped onto white men.
The more “Americans” give, the more is demanded from them. I am frankly tired of the abuse heaped upon me and other “Americans”
I have mostly arrived at this conclusion, and I think many others have also, I will do the best I can, I will make decisions I think are best for me, my children, and progeny, I will try my best to not do harm to other people. But if I, or we, are attacked I will fight back with everything I have to fight back with.
I think that people in other countries can disagree with us all they want, but when the chips are down, they will be our friends, or our enemies. No neutrals.
And, I agree with the old saying, “the best defense is a good offense”
"A new scientific truth does not triumph by convincing its opponents, but rather because its opponents die, and a new generation grows up that is familiar with it." Max Planck