someone in our community died and i asked the people that study with me if they were going to go.
They said no and quoted a scripture about Jesus saying "let the dead bury the dead"
So I took this to mean anyone who is not a witness is considered "dead"
however they said they would attend the tea after the funeral service.
This didnt make any sense to me, why would they eat their food but not pay their respects at the funeral?