We had a guy a couple of years younger than me who was very effeminate.
Just listening to him speak and observing his mannerisms, you'd at least ask yourself, is this guy gay?
I don't know if he was or not ... perhaps he was bisexual?
I just don't know.
He was a nice guy, generally speaking. And he *was* included in congregation stuff, from what I remember.
He could be a bit pissy sometimes. I'll give you an example: we were all invited out to dinner to an Indian restaurant. Generally speaking, we all had a good time. But we all had had a few drinks, and for one reason or another this guy put some salt or pepper in my hair. Can't remember why or what started it, maybe he was just having a laugh. So, I kinda laughed along with it, then 10 minutes later I put some salt in his hair. Give as good as you get, right?
And then this guy went ballistic. Because I did the same to him!
Anyway, he was a nice guy. I wonder what happened to him. Maybe he left the WTS and is now living with his husband, who knows?