(((((((Vicki, needs_lots)))))))
while i am typing this the song on the radio is "Lean on Me",by Bill Withers....."I just might have a problem that you'll understand...if there is a load that you can't bear..."
This is the first I've heard of your story...(been watching too much Law and Order reruns lately)!
I can't imagine what you must be feeling, but it makes me sick to read your story and about the ruling.
First, I hope you can appeal the decision. and Second, if you do eventually have to pay the b@st@rds!!! I will help in any way I can. Third, I am in New York, and although I've never been too much of a fighter I will try and do what I can to get this to the media here!
You've got a friend in New York
eisenstein