Crumpy,
Well, I do have to put up appearances every day in my home, that I am open to the idea of TFDS. If I do not, my wife won't talk to me about it.
I also have to put up the same face to all the dubs who come around. Mostly I use them to practice my talking to cult members skills. I figure my wife is newly dunked, so she is still in her honeymoon phase, and bulletproof no matter how skilled I was at opening a persons eyes. Right now I am "sharpening my knife" and waiting for the shine to wear off for her.
I do go to meetings every other week so "the family is together".
I won't be going to the convention. If for no other reason than my son will not want to go. If I go, we need a baby sitter to watch him since he is only 9. I probably would go at least one day, otherwise.
I do like infiltrating. It gives me a sense that I am actually doing something to counteract the damage being done to my family. Any POW will tell you that it is very important for morale that you resist in any way, no matter how small.
CYP
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