Just the other day I thought of running my car and putting a hose between my exhaust pipe and the rear window, and just doing to sleep peacefully to put an end to it all
DY, this WORRIES me. As someone who thought at first the only way out of the abuse was in a body bag, I KNOW that feeling.
Do not let him erode your self esteem any more from this point. Whether you stay or go you have to know that you are a person of VALUE in this world and that you deserve to live, and be happy.
As I said in my PM, you need to get counseling and a GOOD lawyer, sweetie. Do not go this alone, and know that there are others who know just what you're going through because we've been there and survived it. You can too.
be safe!
essie