Would you take "no" for an answer.

by kwintestal 14 Replies latest jw friends

  • kj
    kj
    the reasoning book and other zombiefying materials..

    That couldn't be more true. Whenever I ask the JW lady that has been coming to visit me a question that she can't answer, the next week she'll bring me some photocopies from the good 'ol WT CD ROM. Why look for the answers when the WT will provide them for you?

    kj

  • BrendaCloutier
    BrendaCloutier
    The standard formula is a 60-second speal with a viewpoint question, respond with a scripture and push the magazine/publication. Trust me, even this is too much for the average modern JW.

    It's the byproduct of all that in-breeding of the uneducated from the 60-s and 70-s (and early 80-s) Ba'aah

    Peace

    Brenda

  • iiz2cool
    iiz2cool

    It doesn't require a college education to understand the meaning of the word "NO". If someone said they weren't interested I left it at that. I hate being pressured, so I would not do it to someone else. If a JW came to my door and tried to pressure me I probably would have thrown him off my porch.

    Looking back, I really wish they were a little more obnoxious at the door. It would have saved me a lot of trouble.

    Walter

  • TMS
    TMS

    Yes. I grew up memorizing the 3-8 minute sermons using the
    American Standard Version.

    "No" was never taken personally. It was a rejection of Jehovah,
    not me.

    By the age of 19 I was the quintessential door-to-door JW. At that
    age, I recall, a newspaper editor saying he was intimidated by me.
    In my naivete, I had a Biblical answer for EVERYTHING.

    But, for me, nothing was ever forced. It was pat the pooch, smile,
    compliment the landscaping and be totally comfortable on any sub-
    ject in any setting.

    Such is the confidence when, in your psyche, you represent the
    God of the universe and have dealt with every situation in thousands
    of door-to-door visits.

    So . . . now in my retirement years, I'm not proud of my JW heritage,
    but I cannot separate myself from it. It is part of me. There is much
    that I don't understand.

    But I do understand "no".

    tms

    ps. I always felt that if I presented the basic "Kingdom hope" and it didn't appeal to the

    householder, that person wasn't "drawn by Jehovah." That eased my mind and I didn't press.

  • mkr32208
    mkr32208

    I was thrilled when someone said no... I was moving on! The worst for me was someone who wanted to talk...

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