Well the move went well. I am in Montreal at the moment and will be looking for a place and work in Ottawa.
My husband was nice to the end with just the occasion reminder I should have talked to him more seriously. He conveniently has forgotten the discussions we did have and discounts them as not serious enough because I said "I can't live like this" instead of "If you don'y change some things I'm leaving" Well not my problem if he needed to be blackmailed into being a nice person.
My belongings arrived safely. From the looks of things in the garage I may have accumulated a couple of things. I will have to wait til I find a place to check that out.