I checked the "Best of..." forum, and didn't see this as a specific link. So--
There's a list of the typical psychological steps that a person usually goes through in the course of recovering from a traumatic experience: something like- shock, denial, anger, compromise, resolution. (?)
I'd like to see that info again, because, even though I know that I've gone very far into the 'resolution' stage of my life, nevertheless, I find, at times, I revert to the 'anger' stage, and wonder to myself: "Where in the heck did THAT come from?"