Thanks for the feedback everybody!
Some other points I made to my dad (not mentioned above):
Me: [answering my dad's objections] "Honeestly, think about this, how would you feel if there was a similar web site called "quotes.catholicchurch.org"??? Would you want it shut down, so that it doesn't "confuse" people who may be newly learning about the Catholic Church? Doesn't the Watchtower itself pull things out of the Catholic churche's past and print them [and gave the "Blacks are a Marked, Inferior Race" quote example]???? How would you feel if the Catholic Church or a Catholic parishoner were trying shut down such a Web site? Try putting the shoe on the other foot... put the shoe on the other foot and see how it fits"
Dad: [totally missing the point and unable to make the mental leap]: The Catholic Church has been involved in [blah blah blah] since the begining of [blah blah blah]
Me: Yes, but that's my point, you don't want to hide the history of the Catholic Church, do you?
Dad: [I forget what he said here, but I think he effectively changed the subject by throwing more rocks at the RC Church.]
He also objected to and was offended by the fact that my site tells people that they have a "Secret Book" and that I provide email autoresponse so people can read it at other web sites. He objected to my labelling the book "secret", but I reminded him that (as I take pains to point out at the Web site) true, the book's existence is obscure but not secret, however the contents are available only to elders, so the contents are secret. By example, I told him that the "secret launch codes" used by Mr. President to lauch a nuclear missile are known to exist, however the contents are known only to a select few, that is why they are called "secret codes" even though everyone knows about them.
He said the Secret Book was not surprising, since any "large company or organization has manuals that are only intended for employees or managers" to which I agreed (that is kind of the point!) and told him that in that case, why is he so offended that I mention the book at my website?
Eventually I added: "My concern is that even though the WT directs you (elders) in that book with specific instructions of what to do in every possible situation, they then try to distance themselves and pretend that elders act on their own if/when they are in court [i.e. Vickie Boer trial] and pretend they DON'T give instructions to elder's They don't have the cajones to step up and "yes, we gave those instructions and if this worldly court doesn't like it we will take whatever punishment you give" -- instead they leave elder's LIKE YOU, WHO WERE ONLY FOLLOWING THEIR ORDERS, swinging in the wind and on their own."
I then told him how KEN LITTLE was caught in a lie UNDER OATH at the Vickie Boer trial, pretending that the secret book doesn't exist; and I personally saw him tell this lie while under oath, and how I saw him TAP DANCE when the book (which he said doesn't exist) was handed to him.
As I recall, that was where we ended the conversation, with KEN LITTLE telling a lie, and elder's LIKE MY DAD left to fend for themselves as for as liability goes.
Aaahhhh... there is nothing like INFORMAL WITNESSING to you FAMILY!!!!
~Quotes, of the "Tort Reform" class
P.S. I forgot to mention that the new computer has a beautiful PDF SCAN+TEXT version of the secret Pay Attention book too... that should help him prepare for elder meetings! ;)