Bad Dates?

by simplesally 25 Replies latest social relationships

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    The girl who cuts my hair decided to set me up with a "really sweet" girl. She turned out to be your classic flake.

    I called and left a brief voice message... she never called back. Ok... I can handle that. End of story I thought.

    Two months later the girl who cuts my hair said that her friend was just shy and I should call her again. * First red flag *

    So I call again and this time she answers. She says she is very glad I called... but she is very busy and had a very hard time fitting me into her schedule. * Second red flag*

    She (not we) settles on a time and day and says that she will call on that day to confirm everything... she never calls... until 15 minutes after I show up... opps! She "feels so bad" about not showing up and needs to reschedule. *Third red flag*

    She says that she will call later that day... but never calls. She calls the next day... no way was I going to answer the phone.

    She is your classic girl who likes to screw around with guys just for the hell of it.

  • Maverick
    Maverick

    Call and confirm girls are classic date breakers, blow them off! You did the right thing Elsewhere! Mav

  • hungry4life
    hungry4life

    I actually posted this on a similar thread a few years back but I haven't had anything worse happen since then so here goes. About 3 (now 5) years ago my married friend had a neighbor she was good friends with he was a young widower with 2 kids and she thought we might like to get to know each other. So we agreed to meet for dinner at his apt (he lived 2 apts down from my friend so it did not seem awkward or unsafe). He cooked spaghetti and afterwards pulled out the old photo albums. The next 2 hours were spent with him talking about his life. Complete with photographic detail. This guy was not a good conversationalist and had a very boring life. The highlight was his highschool football career (I mean the guy was 38). It was sad, I could barely stay awake. Meanwhile his two boys ages 8 and 10 were upstairs and every time they came down to say something such as "i'm thirsty" or "can we please have dinner yet" he would yell at them to get upstairs. Then he showed me pictures of his late wife who had died in a car wreck 2 years before. As if that wasn't bad enough he started to tell me how she was nuts and her death was the best thing that had ever happened to him.He told me that right before she died she had accused him of molesting their two boys. Then without missing a beat he invites me out to the Jacuzzi with him. I said "no thanks I don"t have a suit" so he offered to loan me one of hers( his deceased wife), I decline again and tell him I need to go it is getting late (it was 9:00pm). He said ok gave me a slice of pumpkin pie in a tupperware container and drove me home. When I got out of the car I shook his hand and said thank you. He gave me a ribbon rose in a tiny glass container (ala 7/11 romance style). Needless to say I did not go out with him again, I did give my friend the tupperware to return to him she could not believe he had been so creepy, less than 2 months later he married another girl he had met after our date. UGGHHH

  • Nosferatu
    Nosferatu

    Worst date was probably the girl I dated for three days (she ended up stalking me for about a year afterward). It was July 1 (Canada day). I parked on the street, kinda far from the fireworks location, but it was all I could get. The bitch was on her cell phone non-stop during the whole day, and she complained walking all the way back to the truck. It was just a fucking terrible date.

  • ApagaLaLuz
    ApagaLaLuz

    My goodness!! And I thought I had it bad. You poor things. Every last one of you some were funny, and some just plain sad.

  • atlantaspace
    atlantaspace

    My ex-girlfriend and I drove from Atlanta to Biloxi and upon arriving at the casino she gets tore up with the alcohol .Within the first 45 minutes period she consumes 2 red wines, 2 Brandy's, and a Margarita. Of course, I gotta tip the cocktail waitress and she goes superballistic and accuses me of wanting to tip the waitress with things other than my money. She was so bad everybody in the casino stopped and looked at her and all you could hear was the beeping of the slot machines. She then demands to go home(5 hrs back to Atlanta and we've been there for less than an hour) and storms off. I gave her space to cool down, but then realize several minutes later she has the keys to the car and is crazy enough to try it. I sprint to the parking lot and gotta pull and wrestle her from the car with its engine already running. She could have easily killed an innocent driver or herself that night and I didn't want that on my conscious. To make a long story short, I drove her away from the casino and we stop someplace safe for the night and the next morning, she is still upset and demands to go home. No problems with that, let me cash in my chips and grap a quick buffet at the casino and we'll go back and you'll never see me again. To make a long story short, when I get out the car she tries to run me and several people on the sidewalk over almost drives thru the front of the casino! We are in the casino, she comes in and is still acting crazy. The Police come and we both are asked to leave, she is banned from the area and I am still welcome there, but not with her. We are escorted off the property and she says "Now that I got you out, lets go back to Atlanta" with mty response being "Hell no" "But I have a hangover and I don't know the way back" she screams "Not my problem I reply, here's 30 bucks for gas, the map is in the backseat, have a nice life!" and caught the first taxi I saw and took the first available flight back to Atlanta. That would have to be one of my worst dates...

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