do not attempt dating witness girls!!!!!

crizlee

prepare for a long read. its some interesting drama yea.

well i've known this girl for a month and a half now she came from the spanish congregation to the english congregation, her dad's an elder and i heard she was pretty wild. i started off by asking her to come hang out with my friends at my pool, she gave me her number to the cell phone and then we also talked a lot that day, but she didn't show up to hang out. so i left her a message on her cell that day, she never called back. next day at the book study i meet her she tells me she didn't come because she had to go with her bro and dad to some deep sea fishing place but she didnt go deep sea fishing with them, because on that day she was going back to pick them up.

so like one night im at a friends graduation party and im there chillin with one of my friends and another dude. and he tells me why dont you go chill with the little kids. im like what are you talking about and then they get up leave to go outside. btw this dude that was with my friend is friends with the girl im wooing. and so i see she arrives at my friend's graduation party and she came with a guy thats like way older than her who was the dude's bro. i totally didnt expect this because the party host told me she wasnt invited. then she is talking to her girl friends. i didnt have the guts to go up to her this time. then she goes to the food line. so i get up and say hi to her then walk off. then she is talking to other guys including my friend and the dude he was with and her bro and the dude she came with.

the rest of the time im paranoid with her around all the guys. and then theres dancing, and im usually not the type to dance but i saw she was watching so i went out there. then came the couples dance songs and i didnt have the guts to ask her but she danced with her bro, and then she danced with the dude my friend was with. and then afterwards all of the bunch she was talkin to including her went to my friends house but i didnt get to go so i was upset that night. my friend also pissed a lot of my other friends off because he totally left the party.

so next time at the meeting, i go up to her to talk and tell her she danced great. then this other time i ask her out to come to the movies with my friends. i tell her she can bring her friend if she wants, i'm going to have my friends there too. well that day my friends had other plans and i called her and she had other plans too to go with her family to some other family's house.

i hear shes the flirt with every guy type and then everytime i look at her she smiles at me and comes up to talk to me. like this one time i was at a friends graduation party, another one(the dude-that-was-with-my-friend's). and then she arrives like late and goes to the buffet table, so i go to the same room. i pretend like im just walkin in to get somethin to drink then she tells me hi and she is with her friends and she introduces me to them or i think i told them hi and they introduced themselves to me. and then i had to leave right after that because my other friend wanted to go see his girl and i had to give him a ride.

so like its one week before i leave for a 2 week trip with the friend that blew me off. so i call her one day and she doesn't answer her phone, so i call her 2 more times. 4th time i leave message that i need to tell her something, and she calls me back that night. so we're like talking, and i tell her that i'm going to miss her cuz I'm going on a 2 week road trip and stuff. and then i ask her if she wants to do something before i go, but she had her graduation that week so that didn't happen. and then i call her the day before i leave because i wanted to see if it was ok to get her something while i was gone, but she didnt pick up so i left message, she didnt call back.

and so i'm on trip with my friend, and then i learn that he likes the girl i like. he hangs out with her bro a lot so i'm kinda worried, then he tells me her brother told him she thinks he's cute. and then he tells me he's going to talk crap about me to her. this is all on the trip. the 2 weeks was just horrible for me. this is the same friend who i was hanging out with at the graduation party who told me to go away in a nice way.

so we get back from the vacation, and i dont see her for another week cuz shes at the spanish assembly. when she got back she came up to talk to me saying how long its been and she wanted to see the pictures. after shes done talking to me. my friend goes up to talk to her. i notice she gives him the same smile she gives me and they go outside then come back inside. and so the next time at church i see her going outside i go out too i tell her i got the college stuff for her( im helping her with scholarships, even tho im gonna be a senior and she'll be going into college) and then we go to my truck and she is like nice truck and i ask her if she wants to go over the stuff together over dinner, and she tells me sure over lunch or dinner sometime this week, gimme a call during the week, maybe this weekend we'll do it. i also told i like what youve done with your hair, it looks nice.

the next day it was me, her, and her friend, and my jerk friend chatting and i introduce myself to her friend and then the girl i want is talking to my friend holding his hand looking at his injury, telling him she wants to see it covered up next time. and then they leave and i tell her ill call you later tonight, and shes like alright.
so its monday night and i call her, she doesnt answer so i leave a message saying hey its travis call me back. its tuesday night, no message on the caller id, no call. so its now, no call or nothing.

then tonight my mom storms in yelling at me that, she told her mom that i asked her out, then her mom told my mom that i asked her out and then my mom told me that she knows i asked her and that she doesnt like me. i can stop waiting for my call now wewt!!! freaking bitch!! i feel bad inside really. i want to move far away forget about everyone. i feel like i wasted a month and a half of my life.

notperfectyet

As god is my witness! I will never date a witnessgirl.

crizlee, I am sorry you have gone through this.

And welcome to the board.

gumby

Beth....get your ass to bed....it's late dammit!

Welcome crizley bear

Gumby

crizlee

i wanna date a "worldy" girl but i might fall to the dark side lol. i hate it when i get asked out at school and how there is such a low how chix population in my congregation.

Obviously Secret

That was a choir to read lol. Well sorry you got stood up by a JW chick. If you really wanted her you should have just gotten baptised and became a pioneer. She'd have your babies 9 months later. just kidding (kind of)

My question is (if your gonna stay here. Seems like a hit and run post.), Are you a JW?

lol Girls are a choir, you've experienced that first hand.

Obviously Secret

lol so you are a JW. Man I hope most Jw kids are like you, I really do. Well you aren't much on the good side since you like to curse, but don't feel bad. Remember this, there is no dark side. Just something people use to keep people in line.

Not all JW girls are like that. She seems to be the "Hey like, like this guy I like he is totally hot and I think I should sleep with him" sorry I got that from what you wrote. So you shouldn't waste your time with her anyways. Lol I've actually found a few sane JW girls. Wow know a good handfull of psycho ones. REAL psycho ones. Just wait on your time, you seem like your gonna be a quick fader. Very quick fader.

crizlee

looks like im here to stay.

i've been baptized 5 years now, i have the privledge of running the literature room, doing stage, mics, and the box(which are great for getting through meetings imo). i pioneered one summer after i got baptized with this old geezer(boring summer yea). i've had doubts, i've confronted my parents with topics such as the bible stating nails plural in one scripture talking about jesus being on the stake, and the issue with jerusalem being destroyed in 607 bce when its really 587 bce that deciding when the last days started. they made me call up an old geezer who has extensive bible knowledge, regarding the nails thing i think he said its an interpetation, and the last days thing, to rely on bible prophecy.

oh yea i hate it when they name normal people "worldy". the kids at my school are normal human beings some of em better than the ones at my congregation. i really want out but i dont think ill have the guts to. im pretty smart so ill prolly just go to college getting a great job so i can be super materialistic and stumble others, and go to the kingdom hall just like a church no service or nothing(cant you make up your time, ive always wondered that). hoping to marry a not so devout girl, i dont want to deal with all that pioneer rely on me crap(have any of you known a jw chick that wears a thong?) and live the end of my life to a peaceful death.

and this summer is really lame for me, as most of my friends are working at the new kingdom hall site every weekend. im not goin to that lol ive already got a hard labor job(freaking waiter). but i have been hangin out with this one dude who seems pretty cool, he cusses, and talks about stuff that other jw teens in the other congregations like have sex and stuff.

lame. i feel bad. my friends warned me about this girl. i thought the girl i met was nice. ive also tried getting another girl at my congregation but she liked someone but now she like all over me but i dont like her anymore lol.

crizlee

side note: i got baptized to impress this girl i liked.

Sirona

Welcome!

My advice to you is to get yourself a decent education and get a good job. If you feel you can you should get out of the JWs while you are young or you'll soon be looking back on a wasted life.

Good luck!

Sirona

crizlee

as i long as i live under my parents roof, i must worship the same religion. im going to a good college for sure, im top 5% of my class. i want to move north out of texas, the weather is crap here.

do not attempt dating witness girls!!!!!

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