JW's and XJW's alike are loaded with so much guilt. Those "in" that they are not good enough to be treated right, those out that they were hoodwinked so long.
So much anger, rage towards that organization, and for many, a refusal to develop a bond with any organization ever again.
A perversion of a spiritual relationship that is supposed to be filled with love and acceptance.
Spiritual rape? I would say so.