Our Ginger and Rainbow Bridge.... :(

by Sentinel 14 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Sentinel
    Sentinel

    I have been remiss in posting any updates on my home situation, with my husbands health issues. And now, another stressful event has occured, and our beloved "Ginger" (three year old cat) will be put to sleep on the 29th.

    Hubby has been undergoing test after test, and meanwhile has been admitted to the hospital here twice. The first time was related to the growth in his chest and his ventral hernia; the second time was due to a seriously infected cat bite. Last week was just a bad week for us. Hubby and I were off one day to meet some repair people at the house, and for me to drive hubby to and from doctor appointments.

    Ginger had become progressively more difficult to handle. No matter how much love and attention we gave her, she was becoming a very nasty cat. ..Biting and growling..and mistreating our other cat, June. I was going to take her to the Vet and hubby bent down to pick her up, and she went for him, growling like a rabied animal. I could do nothing but watch in horror. She went for his throat and he grabbed her by the neck and then she got him on the wrist--hitting a vein, and blood was flying everywhere. She then just basically dug his entire arm to pieces, as he was trying to wrench her off him. Normally, such things don't throw him into a panic, but this time, the blood would not stop, so he had me call 911. The vein in his wrist had been punctured badly. Of course, when we told them our household animal had bitten him, they also sent the Animal Control Unit.

    Bottom line is, hubby went off to the ER and the cat ran and hid upstairs. It took Animal Control nearly 45 minutes to get her in the cage. (A woman came--no gloves. Guess she didn't think it would be much of a situation.) She took her and told me that the Shelter would put her into isolation, and we would have ten days to leave her there, while we figured out what we would do, and then at the end of the ten days, the 29th, she would be put to sleep.

    When I went to the ER to get hubby, he was getting a tetinous shot, and being cleaned up. Blood was all over his shirt. They told us even at that, he would get infected and should see his regular doctor the next day. We were glad the bleeding had stopped. Hubby has a clotting problem due to medication he has to take, which makes him deficient in Vit. K.

    That evening we again "discounted Ginger's behavior", telling ourselves that she was just "different". Although I was skeptical about bringing her back home, hubby said he thought we should give her another chance. We both had mixed feelings, having had her since she was a foundling from the shelter. Anyway, the following day, his arm was a sight. It was red and hard, all the way up past his elbow. He felt terrible, and headed to his appointment. He still had told me that he would go to the shelter after he saw the doctor and bring her home.

    That was not to be. The doctor took one look at him, and gave him a "direct admit" to the hospital and told him to get himself over there ASAP. He had a horrible blood infection, and with him being a diabetic, this was no small thing. So he spent two days in the hospital and he and I both had time to think about Ginger. He decided that since all this had happened, she was better off where she was. He was hurt. He was mad. Our pocketbook was quite a bit lighter for sure.

    Yesterday, I called the shelter and explained everything and was told that this peticular breed of cat, the female Tortie gets mean after they are spayed. We had to have her spayed because that is the law; but had we known more about her disposition, we would have chosen another kitten to bring home that day. Anyway, I learned that we are the ones who decide her fate, because they will not release her from quarantine to be put back out for adoption. She has bitten a human badly, and who could blame them.

    She will be put to sleep on February 29th, "leap day". She will pass over Rainbow Bridge to wherever cat souls go. We have to let her go. That will be a very sad day for us indeed

    /<

  • Xandria
    Xandria

    Sentinel ,

    I am so sorry to hear this. I know it is hard to love an animal so much and have things turn this way. All, I can say is I hope you husband gets well. I know you considered all aspects. But if the cat is vicious like this~ then she is a danger to all around her.

    You are making a choice for safety. As hard as that may be, it is a right choice.

    X.

  • Sassy
    Sassy

    Wow Sentinel. I had been wondering what ever happened with your husband and his growth in his chest. Did you get all the answers on that yet? I forget if you have said..

    The cat experiece is horrendous. I can't imagine. I think you are both making the right decision even though I know it wasn't an easy one.

    So is your husband home now? or still in the hospital?

  • Sentinel
    Sentinel

    (((Thanks Xandria and Sassy)))

    I needed some hugs today and I knew if I posted here, they would come.

    Hubby only stayed for two days in the hospital. They put him intraveniously on three types of antibiotics. He is healing from the bites now with just mostly scabs and soreness left. Thank goodness, by the end of the second day in the hospital, the infection was knocked out. It took him another few days to get his sugar level stabilized, but he's feeling better now.

    As far as an update on hubbys other health issues-- the Thoracic surgeon in Annandale/Fairfax gave us his opinion--that it is a non-cancerous fluid cyst, that it is growing and should be drained or removed. (It is 7CM wide and 9CM long, and circular in appearance, with tenticles out from it. He said he'd be happy to schedule the surgery, but hubby and I don't care much for this doctor and we had decided we'd get a second opinion anyway; so now we will go on down to Winchester, take all the reports and pictures we have and see a specialist there.

    Although the Cyst in his chest causes him to be uncomfortable in many ways, it is the Ventral Hernia that has been giving him relentless pain and we hear that there is a procedure to fix that and it can be done at the same time the other surgery is performed. They will go in from his side, through his rib cage, and the hospital stay will be less than one week.

    I have felt so much empathy for him and went out and found an abdominal support for him to wear, and he has been thanking me every day now, because it is the only thing that has brought him any substantial relief. (No doctor even suggested this remedy.) The pain is still there, but not as debilitating as before. He has at least been able to return to work and move about much better. I suppose one of the reasons that the doctor didn't suggest it, was because of his broken ribs; but the six weeks have long since passed for those to heal up. We will both be so glad when all of this is behind him. We had thought the surgery would happen in March, and now it looks more like April.

    The "cat thing" has caused a delay in getting over to Winchester, because his main doctor here, wants that entirely cleared up before he will give him a referral over there. This is understandable, as he says....one thing at a time, according to importance.

    We will miss our Ginger for sure, but have decided that we will not try to replace her with another cat--now or in the future. June is just fine being alone without a companion cat friend. We give her lots of attention, and she is playful and keeps occupied herself during the day when we are at work.

    What a year this has been so far. I will be glad to see Spring.

    /<

  • Special K
    Special K

    Gee's sentinel.....

    It's been a extra rotten time you have been having.

    It's always hard to decide life or death for something. but.. sounds like the cat has got to go.

    Something very wrong with that cat. Very mean cat.

    I remember, as a kid, my parents having a very bad moody cat. there was one particular elder who would come to visit and that cat would walk around growling and hissing at him and she would bite.

    If the cat was laying on the rocking chair or the couch you couldn't move her. If you would step towards her she would growl.

    These are not exactly the kind of pets to have around. I always felt that pets made me feel better, kinder and more loving. This cat has the opposite effect. This one makes you hurt, bleed, .. walk on eggshells and always having to be on guard.

    If you do have her put down. .. I just want you to know that I think you are doing the right thing.

    sincerely

    Special K

  • calamityjane
    calamityjane

    ((((((((Sentinel))))))))))))

    Like you didn't have enough to worry about with your husband's health.

    I've heard of cats having a mean disposition but not to that effect. Sorry to hear that you have to put her down.

    Love

    cj

  • Sentinel
    Sentinel

    (((Thank you Special K.))) You have such a thoughtful way of expressing your concern. The story you related helped me to see that we do have to draw the line at times. Pets are supposed to be our "guests". They are supposed to enhance our human experience and how we relate to all creation. We invite them into our homes to live with us. We should remain in control of that situation.

    The one thing I'm so grateful for, is that June was in the garage when this all went down; it was bad enough that she heard all the commotion. Also, that this happened during the week, and no one else was visiting--especially our grandkids. If they had witnessed this, they would have feared cats forever and that would be just awful. Most cats are wonderful additions to a family. Our June remains a treasure.

    /<

  • SheilaM
    SheilaM

    Sen: I am so sorry. Thunder gets mad at our littlest cat. She is a Maine Coon like the other two but she tends to bite your hand to get you to pet her. Now she doesn't draw blood but dang it smarts.

    You had to do what you did, but I know it is hard to make the choice to put a pet down.

    I hope hubby heals quickly

  • Sentinel
    Sentinel

    It is done.......

    Goodbye "Ginger".....We will miss the way you were when we first brought you home with us in Nov. of '01. This scraggly little female Tortie kitten, tiny and sick. We took really good care of you for over three years. We loved you as much as you would let us. We had you spayed because that is what the animal shelter required of us, as responsible pet owners. We didn't realize that it would change you forever, and that you would become so unfriendly and mean. We had to let you go; we really had no other choice.

    Rest in Peace "Ginger" 7/1/01 - 2/29/04

  • bebu
    bebu

    I'm so sorry to hear about all of these things, Sentinel. What a lot of trials you and your husband are enduring!

    I hope that you will always have FOND memories of your kitty after time passes. I'm sure that your kitty did really appreciate every kind thing you did for him; it is too bad that something went wrong.

    I hope your husband gets very well very soon!! Glad you are such a help to him, esp. in the pain relief department.

    Take care.

    bebu

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