I have been faded for 5 Years raising my kid after JW wife cheated on me. I go to the memorial here and there. My mother is a pioneer. I have had a Fiancé for those 5 years that was chronically ill. My mother has met her, seemed to like her. My Mother lives out of state. Last year I went to see her out of state, took fiancé, tried to stay in different rooms, mother flipped out, called me an idiot in front of my son. I went to a hotel for the week.
When we are out to dinner my mother constantly preaches, what a good meal our heavenly father gave us....tells me things like I won't be in paradise. I'm in my late 30's with a kid. Every time I talked to her on the phone, she says meetings, blah blah, scriptures, Armageddon......
2.5 months ago my fiancé unexpectedly passed away in the hospital, mother came down to support me. Picked at everything the whole time, didn't say many good things about my fiancé. Didn't want to go to the church for the service, didn't go to the funeral at the cemetery, said she was leaving just trying to hurt me. She did end up going to part of the church service.
I now have not talked to my mother for 35 days, she just doesn't call. This was a major event in my life. My fiancé was the greatest most loving, giving person in the world. I'm just surprised my mother does not even check on me or grandson.
This religion is psychotic.... none of my "worldly" family likes witnesses because of my mother.... what is the deal here?