On one hand you say, "Im not completely out of the Borg and dont want to be DFed" but on the other hand you say, "...ex sisters". Am I confused? let's say you meet some nice ex jw and you hit it off, once she (the apostate) meet with your family that will be pretty much it for you won't it? df-ing will be in order?
Please don't meet up with some nice ex jw and then expect her to go to meetings once and awhile so you can keep your family. In all likelihood she will have had her own struggles to leave the borg and going back for you could be traumatic for her.
If an ex jw woman came to this board and said she met a nice man, such as yourself, but she is struggling with going out with you again because you are half in and half out what do you think the general consensus of advice be for her? many would say run.
Maybe you don't need a romantic involvement so soon. Take some time to be yourself and decide if you want to have the jw's be part of your new life.
You are in a unique place right now, may not be the most pleasant but you can grow and re-shape your life the way YOU want or stay in a comfortable place where you know all the rules (set out by men in NY). Take some time and figure it out. Try some new friends. Take a class, go for a hike, join something fun.