As I stated before I just don't have the time to answer each poster. I wish I could.
Isn't this the reason you were getting upset with us... or did I miss something? If so, then you are exhibiting what a counsellor would call "maladaptive behaviour". It's a negative (but very human) way of looking at things and almost everyone exhibits this to some extent; some more than others. It's possible you could benefit from seeing a good counsellor with University qualifications. Let's face it... sometimes these message boards are not always what we'd like them to be.
Your time is no more valuable than mine, since neither one of us can purchase more of it.