At one point I had 46 missed calls in a single day of different elders. I also received emails and texts imploring me to call them. I never did.- pale emperor.
This is extreme harassment I am not surprised you relented. But it's good you didn't capitulate during the JC. I can understand you wanting to see your precious daughter daily and have a normal relationship with her. The elders know now, and they're likely not stupid enough to think you can unring the bell.
I think if I could do it all again I would go back and be with my son and lie and smile and wave. As long as you're not trying to expose WT to the cong, or others you should be fine. This way as she gets older, you can get her to think for herself when you're alone with her, like I did with my son, and eventually you can leave together and she will never get baptised.
I think in time my daughter will be living with me anyway. My wife finds it hard looking after her on her own - where as i find it really enjoyable. - PE
Even better it it's permanent.
This may work for some and not for others. Consider carefully my advice and weigh the pro's and cons carefully. You know your family better than me and you now your ability to fake it better than me.
If you want to talk properly I am in the UK. You can call me, skype, whatsapp, or PM whatever is best for you. I messed up my whole family's life by leaving how I did, so if you can learn from my mistakes that would be great. Our situations are very similar.